Oct 2011

IC Name: Miss_OL Joined: 1 Nov 2005 Last visit: 30 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: YO (York), UK Age: 42

Please note, I am not currently seeking a submissive. Old friends/new friends welcome though.

Hello, I'm a single, monogamous Dominant woman ...

If you are an intelligent, independent, tender, loving, tactile and naturally 'service orientated' submissive man, looking for a loving, fulfilling, D/s, female led relationship ... and think we may have something in common, feel free to drop me a line. Sorry, no fetishists or cold fish .... I've had enough of them, it's a combination of warmth, strength of character and sensitivity that attracts me. (Oh, and I don't consider those who are married, or in a relationship, or Dominant males/switch, nor do I do paid sessions - so don't objectify me like a Pro Domme).

The age range is around 30-50. It's not set in stone, but I'm unlikely to consider someone younger (unless they can convince me otherwise).

My weblogs and posts probably give a good indication of my style of Dominance. It's a lifestyle for me, because it's at the very core of my personality and always has been. To me, Dominance is an essential part of my sexuality and the natural way I tend to be with a partner. I basically don't do submission. I never switch. I don't see submission (or Dominance) as a gift, I see it simply as a personality trait to be cherished and developed – and enjoyed to the max.

I'm more into D/s than BDSM - the power exchange appeals and I like to be in charge, it works for me and I find it interesting and exciting with the right person. I think it's a good basis for a happy relationship.

Having said that, BDSM does feature for me - just not in an extreme way (ie. abuse, serious pain, neglect), but I do expect a sub to take some pain for my pleasure.

I see activities such as tying, teasing, humiliating, spanking, flogging, controlling and using someone for my sexual pleasure as all part of a natural D/s dynamic, which deepens as the relationship progresses. To me, D/s is about both parties sharing, caring, loving and looking after each other, but indulging too.

I have certain fetishes - oral worship in all it forms is a major one, but generally I just enjoy being served and submitted to - the interests ticked are all those that I enjoy.

I'm not into 'the scene', i.e. I don't go to clubs or munches - I just don't happen to want to mix my sexual life with my social life, or need a huge network to boost my ego. I prefer to keep my sex life discreet and on a one-to-one basis and I enjoy a full vanilla life and all the ordinary aspects of a relationship beyond kink.

I tend to get a lot of memos, so please be patient. I reply to all memos worthy of a reply, but please remember, if you don't have a decent profile, a photo (or a link to one), a posting history and don't send a good memo, it's hard to make a good impression. It IS all I have to go by, after all.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Dark long   Height: 5ft 4in   Weight: 10st 10lb   BMI: 25.5  

This profile was last updated on 31 Dec 11, 1:39 PM.

(Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans, AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistent scam artist.)