Does anyone else not like writing profiles? It's not often that I'm stuck for words but when it comes to writing about myself I never know where to start! But hey… I wouldn't contact (or reply to! ) someone on here with a blank profile so I'd best get scribbling. Pass me the crayons please?

Who am I?

I'm a 33 year old female with a fairly sane outlook to life, her own teeth and very little baggage (Do a couple of kittens count as baggage?). I like being independent and I try to enjoy life to the full. I enjoy spending time with my friends, wandering aimlessly with a camera, having my nose stuck in a book, spending too much time online, watching films but rarely TV, cooking and eating out, letting my hair down when out and as I've signed up for the Edinburgh Moonwalk in June lots of walking!

Why am I here?

Well over four years ago I stumbled across IC and thought I'd create a profile, I had very little knowledge of what BDSM/Kinks/The Scene involved and I plunged right in rather naively! It was great discovering other people who also shared my 'kink' interests and I've spent the time since then happily exploring, experimenting and fine-tuning my interests. I've evolved a fair bit since first creating that initial profile, I now know what *really* works for me yet there's still a lot of things I want to explore and perfect – never enough hours in the day! My interests lie mainly within a 'Domme' role though I do have a 'kinky' side that means that if I find something fun I might just give it a go! I don't have any desire to 'submit' though – that's something I prefer in others!

Why I like Informed Consent.

I've met lots of great people through this website and count a lot of them now as personal friends. It's a great way of keeping in touch and it's taught me a lot about BDSM and Kinks and it's allowed me to find out what's on throughout the country and encouraged me to visit as many events as possible. It's a great way of meeting new people who also share your interests…. BUT!...

Why I don't like Informed Consent!

Yes I am single and Yes I *could* be open to meeting someone with regards to developing some kind of play and possibly a relationship which is where my dislikes of IC crop up! I'm not here to cater for anyone's cyber fantasies so please don't insult me by approaching me in that way. Online it can be very easy to contact/approach someone without putting much effort into it - lack of effort = lack of reply. Sound harsh? Possibly but as usual with many things – a few spoil it for others.

Who might I be interested in?

If you are in your late 20's to very early 40's, male or female (I'm Bi), preferably submissive (though I'm not 'switch-ist'! ), essentially single, don't take yourself too seriously, have a reasonable level of intelligence, enjoy life and think we could have *something* to chat about and you're not a fussy eater (bit of a pet hate of mine!) then get in touch. If you don't have a photo of yourself on here and would prefer to email one then please send to simplyyadancer@gmail.com

Last but not least.

My 'kink' interests include latex, ropes, chastity, corsets (for both men and women!), all things bondage, gags, restraints etc. I'm more into restraint than pain delivery but I'm not exactly averse to it either! Oh did I mention I like latex???