I've been around on the scene for quite a while now, over 9 years! Although for the last few I haven't been out and about as much as I should have been. Due to my health most of my BDSM activity's have had to take a back seat So I don't take my kink side tooo seriously now, but I do still like to have a wee bit of fun sometimes and I do still love to be taken out and to be pampered!

My interests are diverse and I'm always looking for new friends to chat with... I have an insatiable thirst for knowledge of people, their behaviour, their emotions and their minds....

I am very selective in whom I play with. I like to take time to get to know a person first, Building trust on both sides takes time, so always arrange to meet in a vanilla environment first to see how we all get along. Then if we click we would move forward to playing. There has to be that connection between us.

What really works for me is the power exchange — The fact that you are willingly giving over ALL your control to me for a few hours - You are willing to do Whatever I Ask of you.

The most important things I look for in my subs, are respect, honesty, & above all loyalty.

So if that's something you are into Read on... Ok I know its long but if you read the whole profile you will see what I look for in my subs and so you wont waste mine or your own time...

My sub must have a liking for BBW (big beautiful women) as yes, I am one of them! He should be thoughtful, reasonably attractive, mature — aged over 40, with a lean tanned body - Without tattoos, piercing or any body hair, a non smoker and someone whos keen to just serve me occasionally on a part time basis... I am not looking for anyone full time!

Someone who likes to take care of and occasionally pamper his BBW Mistress, taking her shopping or out for a meal. (I can be Very Good at Humiliation while shopping!) I like to be made to feel special by someone who values every minute we spend together, so he should also be solvent with a genuinely good lifestyle… - yes i did once meet a sub who expected me to pay! lol

I like my subs to be single and preferably Norfolk based, but this is not essential. He could be experienced or novice — whichever, The pace at which he wants to progress will be respected as will any limits he may have. He will be discreet and have an open mind for role play,

For my amusement He may be asked to sometimes serve alongside my partner sub who is bi, although this will NOT be essential,

Duties will involve, foot/leg worship, pedicures/manicures, massaging, domestic duties, gardening, chauffeuring and shopping.

The 'sex toy” aspects, if any, will be minimal and at my discretion. His satisfaction would be derived from his inner desire to meet my every whim, keeping me amused, happy and making my life easier.

If Interested, applicants should send an email stating why they believe I should chose them... What's so special about you?

When you reply I do not want to read a long list of things you want done to you. However, Communication is very Important to me so I would like some indication of what is most important to you. What are you looking for and hoping to find?

Tell me who you are, the kind of person you are, your relevant experience and fantasies ... What do you take your pleasure from? Is it in Pampering your Mistress, Treating and Taking her out, Domestic service, Submission or/and Discipline?

When playing you will find me Strict, Caring & Cruel with a Very Controlling Streak, but also Laid Back and Easy to Talk to if you have any worries....

I enjoy exploring my subs most intimate thoughts, gradually finding out everything about them.

I am also well known for my Wicked Sense of Humour...

I DO NOT respond to one-liners or people who clearly show they have not read any of the above properly so please reread this before responding.

Please make sure your profile is filled in and be patient, if I don't get back to you immediately it doesn't mean that I am not interested… I am just not online every day!

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