Mistress to & girlfriend of lil pup:

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/lil_pup/

We occasionally visit Lancashire and intend to visit Cornwall, Bristol and London in 2009.

Currently training to be a professional counsellor (2 year course) and will be using this to start a kink-friendly practice in this part of the world.

I have left the UK permanently. Friendly banter welcome, but I am *not* looking for a relationship - see above. New friends always welcome, and I would love to hear from people in NL especially. Previously I have lived in Glasgow, which I enjoyed a lot. Before that I spent 5 months in Sydney, Australia. Falmouth (Cornwall) was also my home for three years, where I set up and ran the Cornwall munch until my marriage ended and I left the area. Before that I have called Torquay (Devon) and Brighton / Hove my home, which I both enjoyed a lot too.

***If you are looking to serve me on a professional basis, you're in the wrong place***

I don't reply to text speak memos. Don't add me to MSN or Yahoo without permission either, it's bad manners.

Lil pup is my submissive, lover and best friend. His submission is the kind of submission that is motivated by a desire to please. Not thinking of his own desires, but achieving happiness through service. For his greatest reward to be my love, my happiness, my guidance. Owned not as property, but as a human being, consenting to be Mine, and Mine alone. Someone to care for, nurture, tutor and guide, to love, dominate, control and torture, to tease, cuddle and look after; to be pampered, worshipped, obeyed, honoured and loved in return. A place where I have found emotional fulfillment within a loving D/s relationship. Where domination and submission is given, and accepted, with love and pride.

In a submissive partner I am lucky to have found ... a man. Not a wimp. An equal as a human, but submitting to the woman he loves. Someone who doesn't mind getting his hands dirty if required. Who enjoys the process of learning. Someone tall, attractive, attentive, adventurous, a little bit crazy. Someone kind, warm, gentle, confident. Someone who loves to pamper, worship, caress and tease. Someone in love with life. Someone with style, humour and intelligence. Someone respectful, subservient, sexual. Someone who wants, no, needs control and direction. Someone who will do what he is told with a cheery disposition even if he doesn't really want to. Someone who obeys and wants genuinely to please and serve at my feet. Not fulfilling his own desires, but achieving happiness through obedience and service. Someone who will submit to me, body mind and soul, who will trust me in everything I do, even if he is afraid; my love reassures him in the path he has taken. Where his trust and love are so deep that he no longer requires a safeword. Where he feels safe to discuss his wildest dreams and fantasies, his darkest desires and fears, his innermost thoughts, without fear of repercussions or judgement. Where he truly belongs to me as mine, and mine alone, to the core of his soul, of his heart. Where loyalty, trust and honour lie at the core of our power exchange and our vanilla relationship.

And I realise every day, every hour, how beautiful love can be.