18 May 2012 |
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I am a "mature" Male Dominant who loves all things BDSM - Amongst others: CP - especially caning flogging and spanking, sensual play, teasing, tormenting, mind play and fire play.
I do not call myself a sadist, but I can do some very sadistic things,
Those who think they know me will see me in a chat room as laid back and unruffled, and never making waves or excitement in life.
Those close, know me as a fairly intelligent person who watches, listens, and tries to consider all facts before jumping in with both feet. I don't always succeed with this, but I do try.
Friends know that my take on a Dominant is that he/she does not need to have an arrogant and uncaring image to be a good Dom. To me, caring is the very first quality. If you don't care - where does that leave your submissive? As long as you care, the other attributes of a Dom wont need explanation.
I love the BDSM lifestyle, the social side, chatting, meeting at munches and fetish fairs, parties...and flirting.
Am I looking for a life partner? I would have to say no.
Does that mean I'm just tarting around then? No not that either, but somewhere between the two is where I'm at, but who knows what could develop if there is chemistry.
What I will not do is offer false promises, I would rather offer nothing than do that. When I do make promises though - I keep them
So you will perhaps be curious, maybe will have experimented a little. You will have that knot deep in your stomach….…a heady cocktail of excitement, curiosity and trepidation. However - you will not even consider anyone who doesn't show patience and respect for you as a person.
Or you may be an experienced submissive, who - like myself is moving on after a long term relationship ended.
You will see beyond the tough exterior, through to the goodness inside. You will talk, listen and learn……Most importantly you will – by reading the signs, asking questions, and listening carefully to the answers - judge for yourself who is a true Dominant – and who is not.
MSN ID:he4u@hotmail.com Eye colour: Blue Hair colour: shaven Height: 6ft 1in Weight: 16st 9lb BMI: 30.5
This profile was last updated on 9 Apr 12, 11:44 AM.
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