I have been a switch for most of my SM time but have gravitated largely toward the Master role, (James Spader in Secratery type than a "24/7 cruel whipping master"). I dont like to control people in everyday life and mindgames in that context are for the securely inept but in the "scene" mood I find this very interesting. I ideally like the idea that a couple can have a normal vanilla relationship with regards to caring for, laughing with and enjoying the company of eachother. When behind closed doors and personally between eachother a couple can indulge fantasies of dominance and submission as a special bond between them. This includes all physical areas of restraint, Sadism/Masochism and control and also a mental arena of desires and needs that each can fulfill for the other. I enjoy Roleplaying immensly and belive that this can add yet more intrests to the barrier between the SM an vanilla self

Normally, I enjoy travelling, have been extensively to that island the U.S and went to that Asian corner for a while, and that bit under the channel known as Europe. Still to see most of this Britain place though. I actively enjoy humour and music although the ability to perform either can be rather lacking in conviction. I belive you can vote if you like, if only to stop the BNP but other than that its largely pointless. Im starting to get into photography and enjoy talking to creative souls, although Ive never had my finger on what you would call the pulse.

Very easy going when not in the SM role, would just like to get to know some people in a relitavely close area just to get chatting and work my way back into the social circle, anyone fancys a chat jus drop us a line.