I have just come out of a short term D/s relationship, which failed due to the geography, She lived 200 miles away.

It is only in the past three years that I have found my Dominant side, I was in a vanilla relationship prior to this and giving a spanking was rare! I am a professional in my work, at the end of the day I love making decisions and taking responsibility and I just want someone who wants my input to their every day life.

I am looking for a soft but caring sub, who is consistent, loving and who enjoys life, good sense of humour.

Preferably a professional but personality comes way before status.

My hobbies: DIY, badminton, Gym, walking in the beautiful countryside.

I just want to find someone I can love, who will love me in return, someone to take care of and look after, to walk through the door after work and have them throw their arms round me and feel warmth and strength from me.

You should live within 100 miles ish of Basingstoke and be very sub (no one who likes to top from the bottom, although I am not looking for a doormat either).

Mutual respect is as paramount as honesty and trust.You should like to be surprised as I am creative, imaginative and spontaneous. I have very few limits and enjoy most things, my hard limits are the usual, no kids, no scat. Your Limits would be discussed and developed to your full potential

My favourite areas of play are: Hair, Collars, Fisting, CP & Anal play. A D/s relationship to me is very lengthy foreplay, and with a little help from my "magic wand", (and i'm not on about a part of my body) take you to subspace in preparation for eruption. Sexual tension is great mind play.

If your interested memo me, I will reply, Graeme