Inserted on the instructions of Mistress Amazonia, aka Ama_Sidero:

Happy anniversary, 3. It is a year since we met. In that time, we have become playmates and friends. This is my gift for you, because you will probably never change your profile, being too stubborn. But I really think IC is one of the best places for you to find what you seek. So here goes.

This is Numbers' profile, written by me. People can't really talk about themselves without sounding arrogant, can they? But I can tell you about him. Numbers is "disillusioned" about finding anyone on any site really. Your best bet is to meet him in real life (he usually posts where he will be on FL), but I can tell you a little bit about him.

He is a Switch and is looking for someone to Top. He & I are not interested in influencing our dynamic, as he bottoms to me. If I am honest, I would love to have a little sub-girl and I would happily share her with him. (It would also make the chain-of-command a bit more apparent). However, failing that little fantasy being fulfilled, it would be nice for him to have a girlie to do perverse things to. I am sure a girlie to cuddle in the night would be quite nice for him, also. But at the moment, he is looking for a girl to play with and appease the Switchiness in him, preferably someone in the South so there isn't a lot of travel time.

Numbers is rather choosy, but a huge believer in Chemistry and connection.

Good points: He is extremely intelligent and witty. He also doesn't tolerate fools at all. He is one of the most kind, honest, truthful and open people I have ever met, along with one of the most loyal. He is thoughtful, considerate and will surprise me with something sweet that I had even forgotten that I talked about months ago, but he has remembered. Numbers will tell you he is chaotic and random when, in reality, he is one of the most efficient and organised people I have ever met in my life. He is totally upfront and not only is he not afraid to be open and stand up for what he believes in, he is willing to fight for it by taking part in activism, etc. He takes BDSM very seriously, from a spiritual perspective - the "headspace" of it, and is not after kinky sex (though I am sure he wouldn't mind some sex occasionally ). He is also very experienced in different aspects of BDSM and is interested in it from a Sensation perspective. So he doesn't just want to hurt someone.

Bad points: Well, getting him to commit to a meeting date is a bit like cat-herding, though he always says "yes" in the end and is punctual. He is a bit of a commitment-phobe, so if you are looking for a LTR on a serious basis, you would have to be pretty special, I think, and he is Poly, so some might not be interested because of that. (I think, though, if he found someone who "ticked all the boxes" he would not be Poly, but he has given up looking for her). He is very stubborn when he feels like it (but that is also called perseverance when people approve of it. lol)

Changeable points: Being self-employed means he is very flexible timewise, but also a bit unpredictable as a good job might come up at the last minute. Being the loyal darling that he is, he does tend to have female friends, ex's, and me on the fringes. So it might not suit a very jealous person, but is testimony as to how loyal he is. He is very, very, very kinky and adventurous. That is changeable (good/bad) as he is great fun to do things to - I have no clue what he would do to someone tied up. LOL Lastly, they have to share him with me. But I am ok, usually, not hard to get along with, and I will share happily if it makes him happy.

I am sure there is a lot more I could say, but it would be a bit overkill. But he will definitely have a better chance of finding what he seeks if he actually has something in his profile.

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