Eventually I would like to find the right man (Dom) for a long-term relationship (I'm the loyal sort)… but am not 'searching' for this. I believe we bring people into our lives for a reason - for the lessons they have to teach us about ourselves. I'm just going with the flow - enjoying the journey and friendships I make along the way on my own adventure. I'm young at heart and very open minded.

For me it's all about the mental connection I have with somebody. Of course there needs to be physical chemistry too but the mental aspects are what excite me. I would want a really creative, attentive, and intelligent Dom who stimulates my mind as much as my body. Somebody spontaneous and adventurous… with a twinkle in his eye. Somebody who is good with words and communicating is very important to me.

I keep my BDSM private at the moment and this needs to be accepted and respected. In the Vanilla world I have a public profile. That's why no pic but happy to email one. I'm not really a scene player because I've never ventured into all that. I'm independent, confident, and married to my work - which is my big passion.

My interests (in no particular order): filmmaking, writing, cinema, photography, world politics (liberal), protests and activism, technology & gadgets, macs, cycling, listening to music, writing poetry, the Middle East & North Africa, cooking, spliffs, camping, beaches, traveling, bonfires, star gazing, day dreaming, people watching… and kinky sex…