Ohhhh Sir , I do say!

IC Name: Litany Joined: 25 May 2001 Last visit: 4 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 37 Website: www.synthetiklens....

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I'm James, 37, single and from London. A Guardian reading pervert who is looking for something that encompasses more than just D/s.

Having been involved in BDSM for about 9 years, I have had some amazing experiences, but now I seek an accomplice to share in my adventures.

Whilst I wish to have a D/s lifestyle with someone who wants and desires the same, that you are a sub is the least important thing , its you I want to know , not that you identify as sub.

D/s for me is not overt and everyday but there underlaying underpinning what is an important part of my life. I prefer to make a suggestion of my desire that is considered a pleasure to acquiesce to, rather than an outright demand, command or order; subtle control is my preference. I follow a simple creed: Respect is mutually given, Dominance and submission are earned. I will never be sir or master , I am James , first, foremost and always, but I am adamant in my decisions, I know what I want, and so will you!

I enjoy an intense love affair with the songs of Nick Cave, Mr Cash, PJ Harvey, The Tindersticks, Ghoultown,VNV Nation, Evenessence, STID, NIN, Prodigy and Nina Simone but could be described as having a very eclectic musical taste, that is ranging between Goth/Hellbilly/Metal/EBM/Rock/Classical/Jewish and Islamic call to Prayer and Industrial music. I also enjoy most genres of cinema, entertainment, media and modern art (especially the works of Anthony Gormley), Radio 4, I attend the theatre and watch some TV.

Clubs, both kinky and vanilla are also of interest, not overly so , but of interest. LAM ,the London Munch and also BBB occasionally, but I feel more at home on the big sofa in the pub, curled up reading the sunday papers, the bench in the park on a cold blustery day, just as much as I am in the dark alcove of a club surrounded by the sound of pleasure...

Most of all, I feel that this lifestyle is so amazingly diverse and encompasses so much that I will never stop learning from it, do you want to adventure with me?

I look forward to hearing from you!

MSN ID:litany.uk@gmail.com   Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown  

This profile was last updated on 4 Feb 12, 7:34 PM.

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