Me... it's soooo me!

IC Name: LilLass Joined: 10 Dec 2008 Last visit: 216 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: UK Age: 42

Looking for a special switchydommy someone! Trying to explain what I wish to find in just a couple of sentences is impossible. If you're really that intrigued then memo me and I'll bore you to death!

Warning: I am infuriating and irritating!

The moment you think you have pigeon-holed me, I will step outside the box. I am not Domme. I am not sub. I am not switch. Be prepared to think differently, or do not think at all. Just because I enjoy restraint it does not mean I am a submissive. Just because I enjoy bondage it does not mean I enjoy pain.

Seeking...

...that special someone who can light the spark in my brain. I'm looking for a gentleman or a lady whom I can admire and respect, and who will admire and respect me in return.

I adore bondage; it's a big part of what makes me... me! You must have a passion for bondage, first and foremost. If you don't and you are looking purely for a submissive then I am not the right person for you. Also, it is becoming increasingly frustrating to find that every man - without exception - sees bondage as an excuse for "kinky sex with a stranger". For me, bondage is a cerebral ecstasy. OK... now I have put 99.9% of people off writing to me!

Spanking is a hard limit for me. No, I won't make an exception for you. Yes, I know you think that's weird.

I am discerning; I like manners and I hate profanity. Is it really too much to ask?

Please note: I do not use any kind of 'chat' program. Yes, I know it's not normal for someone to shun MSN, but just remember; I don't run with the herd...

No, I won't obey you without hesitation or question. I will always question you and make you question yourself.

I'm not looking for 24/7. Nor do I want to join a poly household, or add you to an imaginary 'stable' I may have.

What I am looking for:

• A man who doesn't see being romantic as a fault,
• A man who thinks it is cool to slowly trace the contours of a womans face with his fingertips,
• A man who thrills at seeing the pleasure he gives by providing restraint, and understands it,
• A man who isn't bothered if it's Japanese rope bondage, Western rope bondage, a granny knot or just pallet wrap as long as his partner is subspaced!

If you still choose to write to me (are you mad?!) then please try to do so in proper English. Spelling and grammar are truly wonderful when used correctly. Trust me. Oh, and don't forget the shift key allows you to add capital letters at the beginning of sentences.

I have been told my profile comes across as demanding and aggressive. I'm a pussycat really! Just a pussycat who knows her own mind...

This profile was last updated on 29 Aug 09, 10:01 PM.

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