I'm a bossy lady who loves to dress up, be a little cruel and be adored for it but not every day of the week. I have a wonderful man who understands my desires and enjoys being submissive - to a point.

Warning - No Mistress Minion, Me! Be aware, I am 5'2" (without the heels) and a size 16. Yes,curves - corseted! I'm happy with that but if you aren't, good bye and may you fare well. If not, please do read on.

As I'm a beginner, I have limited experience but I'm trying to correct that! I never indulge my desires without my partner's presence, he does understand that I may want a little more than he can give. In fact, he rather likes it! So he's always there when I/we play. See, we all have our kinks.

We have just taken our first steps into the social world of BDSM here in the South West, and have met some very friendly, non-judgemental and helpful people. We'd love to meet more of you and get out on the scene more so hope to see you around! If you'd like to introduce yourself,or have the patience to share your expertise, please do get in touch.

Thanks to the success of I.C., I'm not looking for single male subs at the moment; I've met some great playmates through this site and one mustn't be too greedy! Oh and I don't switch so don't ask!

However, I'm interested in hearing from submissive ladies who would enjoy a sensual experience as the centre of attention. ("Dream on," I hear you cry! Well, if you don't ask...)

In the other world, we are an ordinary couple with all the trappings: jobs, kids (teenagers), cat, car, mortgage etc. We enjoy the outdoors (walking not dogging!) a glass or two of good wine and the company of good people. And...if you've got this far, thanks for reading this ramble.

Lady J and m. X

Eye colour: Hazel   Hair colour: brownish   Height: 5ft 2in  

This profile was last updated on 4 Jul 10, 10:22 AM.

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