I am a 55 year old transsexual woman, until my op five years ago; I had no interest in sex beyond relief. Now things have changed and I am doing what I should have in my teens as a result I can be a bit adolescent at times. I had a relationship with a commercial Domme as sub, but this is the ONLY person I have ever felt this way about. I am beginning to go on scene a little and learning about myself slowly.

I am a computer service engineer (No private commissions please) educated to degree level (Open University), and widely skilled in knotting and such things, having been a boy scout for many years. I like to read, sew, sail, and ride my motorbike too fast. I like to think I can hold a conversation, but am in no way an intellectual. I can be sure that I feel any relationship in BDSM, like the rest of life, if it is to be successful requires both work and commitment from both parties.

So what kind of submissive am I looking for?

Well I propose to do a lot of my learning at club events, mostly in London and surroundings. Obviously private sessions will happen too, but I don't now have any large equipment at home, and shan't spend a lot of money just to find out if the kit is what I like. Therefore, a willingness to go clubbing is, at least to begin with, essential. I will be open to suggestions from my partner as to particular activities, as long as they appeal to both of us.

My partner will need to be prepared to communicate even when I am in full flow, and to hell with the consequences. I have no desire for a doormat, I have played with one and I was terrified to have so little feedback. I am looking for feisty person then, who is prepared to stand up for them selves, but who can submit when treated properly, and who wants to explore this odd, enticing, world of BDSM.

As for hard limits, I am not interested in children, scat, blood, or permanent marking of any sort. I will not deliberately expose my partner to public ridicule, exposure, or injury of any kind, but may play in such a way that there is a risk of such. I will never deny the humanity of my partner, in manner physically or verbally, this is not to say that pony or other animal play is not possible, but it will always be with a HUMAN pony, doggie etc.

You will have noted, if you are a suitable person, I have not specified male or female in the above. In truth, I am not concerned, I am bisexual, and have some experience with both men and women in a vanilla setting. Much more, I am interested in what is in your head and heart. That is what makes the person, not what is between your legs, delightful though such things are.

Please note I will not respond to one-liners, unless they are funny, and you will not see me laugh. A sensible message will always be taken seriously, so please only serious enquiries.

Hugs,

Irene.

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