Slaves; male or female, for domestic service/driving.

Pony; again male or female so long as you are strong enough to pull Me in a cart.

Vanilla Me.

Well, I'm a conumdrum wrapped up in a puzzle, hidden in a labyrinth. Those who take the time to get past My guiding cane and get to know Me will find someone kind, caring, honourable, trustworthy, with a wicked sense of humour and very strong and well defined principles and morels.

I have done a lot of things in My life and have interests in many things. Some of which include photography, literature, dancing, burlesque, power lifting, motorbikes, all things Wicca and spiritual, flowers, fine wines, walks in the country, Terry Pratchett, Vampires, Purple, pink flufy socks, Anne Rice, Stephen King, Lord of the Rings, Stargazer Lillies, Single malt, Royal Albert China, painting.

Ecentricity is My middle name and I tend to combine things that most would consider immisable, such as BDSM and healing! I am happy to and will indeed converse on most subjects and value other people's opinions as variety is the spice of life!

BDSM Me.

And again all the labels come to mind lol! Well lets just get that out the way. I'm Domme, Sadist, Poly, Pansexual, and I don't identify as female although physically I have all the requisite body parts!

I don't switch, top or bottom and I don't sub, and for those of you out there who think you can break Me, how rude!!! But it really was most amusing watching you try!

The terms above are just a rough guide to where I'm at, not a tablet of stone. In the lists below you will find some of the things I can do and some that I am interested in learning how to do, I am always learning and I seek to be the best I can be at whatever I do.

As for my style, well I am Reserved, Stern, Quietly Brutal and above all a Lady. I'm not into swearing or verbal abuse and I refrain from using it except where absolutely necessary. I speak softly and carefully and I expect you to do Me the curtasy of listening. What happens after that depends on how I feel about you, what we have to offer each other and if we get on.

Yes, I do contracts. However when I first meet someone I prefer to get to know them as a person before I discuss their slavery. This can be an iterative process as people change over time and with experiance and this needs to be reflected in any term of service.

In public and private I have little time or energy for random, casual play. My time is given to those that are devoted to Me and who I have some kind of relationship with. Obviously it should be noted by now that I prefer to get to know a person before playing with tham.

Hard Limits.

My scene family, highlighted in My network. If you try to split us up, or disrespect any of My family in an attempt to get Me all to yourself, you will be ignored.

My disability. If I feel like talking about it I will, but if I don't try and understand that I have had 30 years of the same questions and derogative comments and it gets very tedious dealing with people like that.

My private life. It's exactly that, private.

Meeting Me.

For reasons of My health and safety, I don't meet people alone, nor do I meet people at My residence.

If you want to meet Me, I can be found at EDS, Cardiff Munch, SWAMP, Bristol Munch, Newport Munch, BBB, and Ceasers Rope Bondage Workshop.

Bear in mind that I don't always attend regularly as life happens, however those are your only chances of meeting Me initially. If you have any problems with meeting Me at these venues than please don't waste my time, I'm only interested in real life people.

Before you start, I don't msn, yahoo or 'chat'. The memo function on this site is perfectly adequate for My needs and does not intefere with My vision. So, memo Me lol!

Usually I will answer most memo's, but if you are rude, offensive, don't have a network or any pictures or description of yourself and your interests, I will probably ignore you. I am a real life person, not an online persona.

Partners.

You will notice that I have Cariad_Seren highlighted in My network. We are both exploring what our relationship means to us and this will develop as time goes on.

None of the traditional, or indeed non traditional, definitions apply. If you get hung up on definitions chances are we won't get along.

To Me, she is the sister I never had, the most warm, logical, compassionate, caring person and a true partner. Although we share a more spiritual connection our love grows as time and knowledge progress.

LilyoftheValley is also highlighted in My network. She is a truely delightful person and has put a smile on My face through many a dark moment. To Me she is the daughter I never had and a more bubbly, articulate, boobylicious and supportive person you could not wish to meet!

I have also highlighted TsiJon, and yes He is a Dom! To continue with My analogy, He is the brother I never had. He is also a caring, sensitive, understanding and loving person, a true knight in shinning armour!

As with Cariad_Seren, we are all discovering and exploring what our relationship means to us both now and in the future. Our love and respect for each other will only grow over time and experiance, tho I can safely say there is nothing conventional about any of it! lol!

With these beautiful, honourable and trustworthy people in My life I am the most happy and content I can be.

Poems.

Friends.

If nobody gave us a helping hand, And nobody seemed to care, If the prizes of life all went to the strong, And nobody gave us a share, If nobody had the time to give a thought to you and me, And we had to struggle as best we could, What a hopeless world 'twould be.

Lending a hand to help the weak, Can lighten anothers load, Giving our best with a willing heart, Can brighten a lonely road, 'Tis on something to live for, someone to love, That the purpose of life depends, And there's nothing to equal the gladness and joy, Of making and keeping friends.

(Author unknown)

Quotes

The following are some words of wisdom and wit that I have come across over My life. They may depict a part of My personality or may simply resonate with some things that I hold dear, they are by no means a 'be all and end all' description of Me.

"You say that my way of thinking cannot be tolerated? What of it? The man who alters his way of thinking to suit others is a fool. My way of thinking is the result of my reflections. It is part of my inner being, the way I am made." Marquis de Sade.

"Carpe Jugulum!" Terry Pratchett.

"To see a world in a grain of sand, And a heaven in a wild flower, Hold infinity in the palm of your hand, And eternity in an hour." William Blake 'Auguries of Innocence'.

Pay Attention!

If you wish to contact Me, I expect you to have read My profile. It's simple manners after all. To show Me that you have taken the time to read it, please use the word 'FELIX' in the title line of your memo. And yes, the code will change regularly! lol!