IC Name: Kusiemski Joined: 11 Aug 2001 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: SW London, UK Age: 35

“She knew how to allure by denying, and to make the gift rich by delaying it.”

—Anthony Trollope

“Man is the one who desires, woman the one who is desired. This is woman's entire but decisive advantage. Through man's passions, nature has given man into woman's hands, and the woman who does not know how to make him her subject, her slave, her toy, and how to betray him with a smile in the end is not wise.”

—Lepold Von Scaher-Masoch

Thanks for taking the time to take a look at my profile. I love the two quotes above as they seem to capture what attracts me to D/s - I've always been fascinated by that delicious mix of feminity and cruelty.

I hope to one day meet a domme for a real, committed relationship with a strong D/s element, after sometime in and around the scene I hope my expectations are grounded. I don't think I will ever lose the sheer intensity of feeling I experience from submitting to another. I'd describe myself more as a slave or sub rather than a fetishist but I realise everyone needs the odd hug and it not always going to be whips and stilettos! I still want to make decisions and live my life – I don't see my submission as absolving myself of responsibility. But I do crave that undercurrent of your control, to exist in a world of your creation.

I'm captivated by power exchange and the aspects of play that reflect it, I am intrigued by the idea of chastity and being teased and tormented – I love the idea psychological mind fucking, pushing boundaries. Self-sacrifice and submission for me seem to be closely related.

Qualities I appreciate and hopefully possess are imagination, self-belief and self-awareness, independence both of thought, and in life. I'm well educated – I've got a PhD in geology, read a fair amount and like to know what's going on in the world - so can hold the odd intellectual conversation when required. I have an open mind to most things in life and always look to expand my horizons.

Away from kink, I love making the most of what London has to offer, visiting galleries, comedy nights and restaurants. I'm fairly active and enjoy snowboarding, cycling, playing (but not watching) football, and walks along the Thames and in Richmond park. Music - kasabian, the smiths, old morrisey stuff, sea change, sneaker pimps, dinosaur jr are all particular favourites. Although I work in science I can appreciate the odd bit of art. In chatting with someone recently on me asking them what they found funny - they replied comedy - I hope you find my profile more illuminating than that!

Eye colour: grey   Hair colour: dark   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 9st 8lb   BMI: 19.6  

This profile was last updated on 19 May 11, 9:58 AM.

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