To help people come together, we hold munches (meetings) organised by local people around Kent. The venues for the munches are normally vanilla (that is are in public places with other people about) and safe! The setting is informal and relaxed - we try to make every one feel welcome and sometimes there could be a competition or even a raffle with suitable prizes!!! There are usually 20 to 45 people at our munches, with usually 2 or 3 new people at each munch. As Kinkykent is starting its 5th year, a lot of friendships have been formed along the way making KinkyKent more than just a BDSM club.

We aim to meet twice or three times a month as a group. The Medway area munch is held monthly, usually followed by a trip to a local 'play' club, as is the Tunbridge Wells munch. We also meet in in Ashford, Canterbury and Folkestone areas, with Thanet now included again, rotating between these venues, on a monthly basis. At times we hold munches in other areas - including day trips to France, trips to Fetish Fairs, London Clubs and our own adult only karaoke evenings!