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IC Name: Juantastic Joined: 16 Jul 2010 Last visit: 5 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Chester, UK Age: 43 Website: http://fetlife.com...

Just so we're clear:

1) The lady in my pictures is not my Domme, she's my wife.

2) Chatting me up won't get you into her knickers or put you in front of her flogger. If you want her consideration, then you need to message her directly.

Hopefully that just leaves people reading who are actually interested in me. Thank you for not being so shallow

So who am I?

Occasional THI-er, Chester Muncher and Kager, and instantly recognisable as the stunt double for Peter Griffin from Family Guy. I answer to 'Juan', 'Dave' and occasionally 'Rhino Arse.' The latter because my backside seems to have transformed into the stuff that they make black box flight recorders out of.

I'm accepting myself now as thoroughly submissive. Masochism still brings me pleasure, but I really crave the trepidation and loss of control, and nothing beats that "Oh shit, do I really have to do this?" feeling (except maybe "Oh shit, do I really have to do this in front of all of these people?")

I have had the fantastic fortune to be taken under the wing of @Gestion, and have been amazed to find someone who is so much on my wavelength, while at the same time being at the opposite end of the D/s scale. He does horrible things to me in a caring and thoughtful way that makes me blissfully happy. Who could ask for more?

@CheshireHoney is my wife of 15 years and remains one of the two most important people in my life, alongside our son. D/s didn't work out between us, so we don't really play as a couple, but she has given me great encouragement in exploring this world. I'm blessed to have found myself married to a woman who not only tolerates my interest in kink, but who was prepared to pick it up and run with it herself. Most wives would have shot off in the opposite direction.

I'm happy to play with most people on a casual basis, regardless of genetics, gender identity or orientation. I consider myself pansexual, but if that sounds too much like a Teflon fetish, then I'm happy to be called 'bi.' I don't mind sexual or erotic play, but I do reserve sex itself for a very small number of particularly close friends. That's partly because it makes sense from a health point of view, and partly because I get so much more from the experience if I feel a connection with the other people involved.

I mostly like to be on the receiving end of various forms of abuse, though I have been known to dish it out on occasion. Favourite activities include restraints and impact play, and I'll exploit just about any excuse to get naked. Since we're all mature, kinky adults, I'll also mention my interest in amateur proctology, especially if it leads to serious malpractice.

Vanilla me is something of an intelligent underachiever. I'm a bit of a sci-fi nerd, I love a good comedy, and I'm particularly fond of anything that successfully marries the two. There's more to me than that, but I mention these specifically because they've proven to be handy ice-breakers in the past. Please note that I do not speak Klingon.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 17st 7lb   BMI: 34.9  

This profile was last updated on 23 May 12, 9:53 PM.

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