IC Name: Jay_kes Joined: 24 Mar 2002 Last visit: 120 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Doncaster /Sheffield, UK Age: 57

If you are looking for a shouty, 'kneel bitch' type dominant, we're not for you. However, if you appreciate that a quiet word, look or gesture can and do work, then read on.

We do not demand submission, nor are we interested in beating someone into submission. For us, it is something which is given and accepted because it is right. And damn good fun too.

We're a deliciously deviant married couple, together on the “scene” for over 15 years, looking for someone to join in the fun.

I'm Dom and have a wide range of play interests from the sensual to the sadistic. I adore mental bondage, head fucks, floggers, canes and wildly differing sensations... maybe mixing the cane's bite with the soft, sensual touch of a lover's caress. When such contrasting sensations blend seamlessly, they become greater than the sum of their parts…..for all concerned!

Kes is Domme and inclined more towards the sensual to light pain, enjoying the use of restraints, sensation play and floggers. The harsher 'hitty things' are never far away though!

We both like to mix mental, physical and sexual elements into our sessions and enjoy private and public play, fetish clubs and parties. I'm co-manager of the York munch, so feel free to contact me if you'd like to visit the friendliest munch around.

We've enjoyed several wonderfully rewarding, poly relationships over the years. As well as a great deal of pleasure, we've learned a lot from them too. Age and experience make very little difference, it's the people that count.

If the BDSM gods are smiling on us, we'll find that rare treasure: a bi, female sub who ideally wants to be in a long-term relationship. Someone who'll adore playing with me, Kes, or us both.

“Forced” sexuality is a shared interest of ours, so get in touch if you're a straight or lesbian sub and this appeals.

Discreet public play (a short skirt and no underwear, remote controlled vibes etc.) adds another twist of D/s enjoyment for us and certainly makes mundane shopping trips far more interesting!

But it's not all about the “play”. We want you to join us in enjoying a meal out, cuddling up together, or just sharing each other's company. These are the things that help forge a bond within a relationship and are every bit as important as play.

We're both into motorcycles, so if you enjoy sitting astride a big, powerful beast that's a bonus! If not, or when it's cold, wet and miserable, we'll use the car!!

If you've read this far, there's a good chance that we'll all get on, whether that be as friends or something much more! Of course, the only way we'll find out is for you to click on the “Send Memo” button. It's up there... look... go on... you know you want to

Each day we wait, is a day when we won't enjoy each other!

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 8in  

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