Why is it always blokes who do that?

Like a moth in young summer, I was summoned, compelled towards the light. The brilliant, incompressible white globes of pain you gave me, they flew through my flesh under your touch. Such sweet agonies I had never known, and can never forget. The source of those lights I could not see with bound eyes, but shrieked your name in sharp relief behind them. You painted the chains of love upon me, in ecstasy, they held me tight then, and hold me tight still.**

I am also drawn towards the dark, for I am switch, and I do know my shit! Pants at poetry tho, just fancied a change. I do enjoy many deviant delights - the human body makes for a crap temple, it works much better as an amusement park.

Happy with my most gorgeous Lady, and we are sexually monogamous, so only sort of looking. But if you happen to be a fit sub or switchey girl, or maybe a couple and we like you, in which case...... The only things non-negotiable are absolute honesty & discretion, respect, trust and friendship. And a bloody good time! Ultimately, we'd like a long term thing with a mansub for her and a femsub for me, his and hers pets, sort of thing. But better to get it right than get it now.

In the meantime, I am happy to enjoy deviant delights on a casual play basis and am very flattered that people will travel great distances to enjoy my rope. I'd very much like to find a regular, local rope bottom though, to develop new ideas with and while away happy hours playing with string. Just to be 100% clear, I am sexually manogamous with May, so I am not looking for sex with anyone else.

I identify as a switcher, because that's what I am. But it's just the dom side that's available - the other is spoken for, and very nicely too. I may be 90% dom, with 30% of the other, but I am proud of, and find great satisfaction, in both. So there you have it, a dom in a collar.

I'm heterosexual too, but you can find some pics of me in rope on an excellent gay bondage website, here. We do these things because they are fun, and we like the people. Where is it written that BDSM shouldn't be fun?

But I'd still say it's all just an extra dimension, not really a lifestyle. There is much more to me than my inner pervert, honest. Like everyone else, I'm just trying to be a human being in a decidedly inhumane world.

Some more vanilla pics (and whip stuff) here: on flickr

And this chap is also me.

That's about it, if you want to know more, drop us a line.

** True story, btw.