D/s or otherwise, I believe relationships fundamentally comprise of mutual trust, respect and communication, and these three things are of the utmost importance to me in any D/s interaction I take part in. Like a tripod, if any of the legs are removed the whole thing collapses.

I trust my gut instincts and use this within my Domination to put myself into the shoes of the other person. Some of this is because my memory is as impressive as a dead goldfish so I have to rely on my intuition. Some is because I like to ignore the times when I'm wrong!

Things like safe words are debatable, but that certainly doesn't mean that I don't listen - I try to always be aware of the mental and physical state of the submissive. I am always safe, sane and consensual (SSC)... Even though I practice R.A.C.K.

Erotica is using a feather, kink is using the whole chicken.

And now for something completely different: Leonard Nimoy's Ballad of Bilbo Baggins

Art

Ropey Stuff I am still working regularly with rope, although my focus is starting to change. I'm basically self taught (from far too young!), although I have studied pictures and books and listened to those more experienced than myself. I'm still doing a lot of arty farty stuff (which I do want models for) and messing around with thing like my celtic concepts, but I'm also doing a lot more traditional kinbaku and complicated suspension type work these days too. Anyway, all the rope bondage pictures I have uploaded are my own work. Models I'm looking for a variety of people for a few sets of artistic and shibari photo shoots involving various bondage and kink concepts etc. Don't worry if you're not a 'perfect size 0 model' - that's not what I'm after. I don't have nearly enough people contacting me to help so please don't feel you'll be ignored. Needle Art I'm also keen to find needle bunnies to work with. I don't have nearly enough people contacting me to help so please don't feel you'll be ignored.

Psycho Babble

I use a lot of psychological Domination within control of D/s scenes. Personally it is the D/s and Bd elements of BDSM that interest me with SM taking up very little of my attention. I believe that almost all of the SM elements which may appeal to me can be categorised under the discipline portion of Bd anyway...

While I will use impact play, needles, fear play etc. I probably consider my specialties to be within psychological Domination and kinbaku. I train every person as an individual based on what their personality requires and try to push people towards truly committing themselves to their role.

For example; for subs, this means encouraging you to feel the deepest feelings submission has to offer and discouraging 'roleplaying submission' as an aid to detaching yourself from the situation in a bid to maintain a level of control.

A big part of my extended training becomes training the mindset within scenes so that you get more from them - dealing with fears of losing control, inability to trust, fears of weakness, general phobias, Topping from the bottom, how to gain more pleasure from impact play and other 'pain', quick subspacing and pavlovian responses to help induce orgasm, more intense general submissive feelings etc.

Random

"Training of O" Subs

Kink.com have inspired a new and interesting training program on some subs who are interested in going the extra mile to push themselves. I'll be taking them into a 'Training of O' style scenario for a predetermined amount of time (between approximately 2 and 4 days though it's debatable and you can "panic out" at any time!). I'll have them regularly complete a journal, as will I, throughout. The training regime will be tailored to the individual and designed to push them to safely experience more than they typically would. This, I hope, means a realisation of some things about the fantasy vs reality of 24/7 as well as a whole host of other emotions and experiences for those involved.

This is clearly an extremely complex concept which requires a large amount of discussion and mutual trust, respect and communication before being undertaken.

If you're interested in finding out more then do feel free to get in contact and ask questions.

Me Being WaterBoarded

Obligatory Quotes

A hero of mine wrote: "Yes, of course I know what a parking meters are..."

"The most predictable thing about people is their inability to accept their own predictability."

Tuam matrem feci

Patrick

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