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IC : Profiles : IndelibleMarker
| Profile: | IndelibleMarker  | | (IndelibleMarker donates money to help keep the site running) |
| Created on: | 20 Jul 2005 |
| Last visit: | 4 hours ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | London |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Email: | IndelibleMarker@hotmail.co.uk |
| MSN ID: | IndelibleMarker@hotmail.co.uk |
| Age: | 23 |
| Hair colour: | Dark Brown |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Weight: | 11st |
| Height: | 6ft |
| BMI: | 20.7 |
| Ad title: | Erotica is using a feather, kink is... |
| Sex/gender wanted: | Female | | Ad updated: | 3 days ago |
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And now for something completely different: Leonard Nimoy's Ballad of Bilbo BagginsCurrent Projects
U35 London Munch
Forthcoming dates for the @U35munch in London: Art
Ropey Stuff
 I am still working regularly with rope, although my focus has now changed. Until now I have focused on learning from those far more experienced than me who have taught me the standard ties. However, all the things which I really enjoy are the things I have taught myself. Keeping in mind what I have learnt I am now developing my own style from scratch. I offer all those who have educated me so far my most humble gratitude.
All the rope bondage pictures I have uploaded are my own work.
Hojo-jutsu
I'm really enjoying learning this martial art, though I'd love to find others who hold my passion and interest in it. I'm keen to hear from anyone in the London area with any experience of hojo-jutsu/aikido/jujitsu or who have a desire to learn.
Models
I'm looking for a variety of people for a few sets of artistic and shibari photo shoots involving various bondage and kink concepts etc. Don't worry if you're not a 'perfect size 0 model' - that's not what I'm after. I don't have nearly enough people contacting me to help so please don't feel you'll be ignored.
Needle Art
I'm also keen to find needle bunnies to work with. I don't have nearly enough people contacting me to help so please don't feel you'll be ignored.
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Me
First off, I live in central London with @TheKey (Who can be seen in many of the pictures on this page, though we're not in a relationship)
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 I come from an Engineering background with a keen interest in the human brain and a passion for powerful art. I'm looking for a relationship which is D/s part of the time with someone who is active, fun loving, kinky, submissive or switch and who likes to explore new things kick back and have a laugh. Oh and it's very important that they're a total rope slut! 
- I'm looking for someone flexible and slim between the ages of 18 and 35 who has long hair and is not covered in piercings. Some people have called this shallow before, but rope is a passion of mine and long hair is a necessity to mean that it can be tied back into the bind. It's also far easier to tie, work with and winch up a yoga instructor than anyone else! Finally, from experience, piercings means that you can't apply rope quickly because you run the risk of catching one as you do. It's not me being shallow. It's logistics.
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D/s or otherwise, relationships fundamentally comprise of mutual trust, respect and communication, and these three things are of the utmost importance to me in any D/s interaction I take part in. Like a tripod, if any of the legs are removed the whole thing collapses.
I have good gut instincts and use this within my Domination to put myself into the shoes of the other person. Some of this is because my memory is as impressive as a dead goldfish so I have to rely on my intuition. Some is because I like to ignore the times when I'm wrong.
Things like safe words are debatable, but that certainly doesn't mean that I don't listen - I am always aware of the mental and physical state of the submissive and can generally read a reaction before they know how they will react themselves. I am always safe, sane and consensual and I practice R.A.C.K.Psycho Babble
- I use a lot of psychological Domination within control of D/s scenes. Personally it is the D/s and Bd elements of BDSM that interest me with SM taking up very little of my attention. I believe that almost all of the SM elements which may appeal to me can be categorised under the discipline portion of Bd anyway...
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While I will use impact play, needles, fear play etc. I probably consider my specialties to be within psychological Domination and kinbaku. I train every person as an individual based on what their personality requires and try to push people towards truly committing themselves to their role.
For example for subs, this means encouraging you to feel the deepest feelings submission has to offer and discouraging 'roleplaying submission' as an aid to detaching yourself from the situation in a bid to maintain a level of control.
A big part of my extended training becomes training the mindset within scenes so that you get more from them - dealing with fears of losing control, inability to trust, fears of weakness, general phobias, Topping from the bottom, how to gain more pleasure from impact play and other 'pain', quick subspacing and pavlovian responses to help induce orgasm, more intense general submissive feelings etc.Random
Please bring back Ken Livingstone as the Mayor of London, so that my road can finally stop smelling of sewerage. Thank you very much. Left wing 4 'eva
"Training of O" Subs
Kink.com have inspired a new and interesting training program on some subs who are interested in going the extra mile to push themselves. I'll be taking them into a 'Training of O' style scenario for a predetermined amount of time (between approximately 2 and 4 days though it's debatable and you can "panic out" at any time!). I'll have them regularly complete a journal, as will I, throughout.
The training regime will be tailored to the individual and designed to push them to safely experience more than they typically would. This, I hope, means a realisation of some things about the fantasy vs reality of 24/7 as well as a whole host of other emotions and experiences for those involved.
This is clearly an extremely complex concept which requires a large amount of discussion and mutual trust, respect and communication before being undertaken.
If you're interested in finding out more then do feel free to get in contact and ask questions.
Me Being WaterBoarded
Obligatory Quotes
| "The most predictable thing about people is their inability to accept their own predictability." |
Tuam matrem feci
Patrick
IndelibleMarker
24 7 D/s . anal sex . a relationship . being Dom . being sub . being Top . being bottom . blindfolds . bondage . caging . caning . chastity . collars . domestic service . D/s . friendship . gags . humiliation . Japanese ropework . Master slave . medical play . objectification . open air bdsm . oral sex . penetrative sex . play piercings . hypnosis . fire play . poly relationships . sex . suspension bondage . threesomes . TPE and IE
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