I am conventional in dress, tall, strong, authoritative and firmly and well-spoken. I am strict yet am fair, and do not have to raise my voice.

I have learned earlier this year, from a very nice young lady, that although I don't do age play, some role play can be excellent fun, and if you like the idea of that, so much the better.

I like lots of popular music, love the countryside, and like to cook. I believe in freedom of thought but not of spelling (re-checks page...) and will happily challenge left-wing ideology, especially if dogmatic and used to justify repression surveillance and the expansion of the state to the outer limits.

You: attractive and healthy, not into too much weirdness of hair and dress that I couldn't take you to a family Sunday lunch; sociable and personable, and who has got over the idea that kink requires some ongoing state of childish brattiness, self-centredness and manipulative game playing. That is not a comment directed at anyone I have met, more at what I read in some profiles.

I also like the tension and energy of prolonged erotic activity. Most people do I expect!

I'm looking ideally for a relationship, long-term, which has the elements that can bring lasting happiness - love, warmth, fun, and getting along, and where the sexual element encompasses D/s.

If you'd read this far, then this is a summary of the above for those in busy jobs like sign writers for banks' HQs and those involved in letting out the former offices of estate agents:

"Smart, normal suburban guy seeks attractive sociable woman for 1:1 dating, romance, enjoyment and lively inventive kink. Looking good in heels a definite plus- you won't have to walk far in them"