Where am I?

I am from UK but living in sunny Spain. Although bdsm has been part of my life for a long time, I have been trying the vanilla world for the past couple of years. However I have found that while I don't have a need for constant bdsm, it is something I would love to have as part of a relationship.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for someone who is happy to have a loving relationship but with that extra bit of spice and care for each other which comes from the trust involved in opening up to your partner as one does in a bdsm setting.

I am looking for someone educated, who loves to read, who enjoys life and is happy with who they are, who is strong within themselves but who would like to have the total relaxation which comes from giving up control and surrendering themselves to being spanked.

Things which make me happy

I love to read (I am a sci fi fan), walking by the lakes, candles, bbqs with friends, photography. I am also a gadget girl - anything electronic or otherwise amuses me!

I have ticked very few of the activities on the list - this is because it is not the actual activity itself which I enjoy but rather the reaction it causes when doing it with someone I care for, the pleasure it can cause in myself and also the pleasure gained from seeing the reaction in my partner's eyes. Playing with someone you don't care deeply for is nothing compared to what it becomes when your partner is with you as part of a relationship based on friendship and trust. (Although I have to say, there is nothing quite like any naked guy in strong leather wrist and ankle cuffs to bring a smile to my face!)

I enjoy both spanking and being spanked but don't consider myself a switch as such. When I want to be spanked I want it how I want it!

You will need to be able to fly to Spain regularly while we are getting to know each other.

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: fair   Height: 5ft 9in  

This profile was last updated on 5 Feb 12, 12:06 AM.

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