me	IC Name: Gwalchmai Joined: 10 Aug 2009 Last visit: 6 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London/UK travel, UK Age: 32

Well, what better day to return to IC than the day we remember a saint who died painfully for love?

I'm Gwalchmai and I'm curious. I'm here to meet people. Specifically, I am looking for a kinky girl, but the connection has to be there, and I don't intend to leap into a relationship with anyone. That said, I am more than happy to exchange memos/emails/possibly meet interesting people.

The list of interests is at best only a stab in the dark, because I still have so much to learn - I've tried a lot but there may be a *million* things out there I don't even know switch me on.

I'm a slightly switchy dom - being sub AND dom has been wonderful and I'd be happy to play either with the right girl, but I find that I get a hell of a kick out of being in control, in the long term. If I sub or donm depends on the person I am with; some people I just immediately want to torment, a rare few I could see myself subbing too.

The psychological aspect of D/s fascinates me; I love the idea of controlling someone by voice alone, without a single touch. That said, giving a naughty bottom a good thrashing does set me up for the day very well... My style is NOT about screaming and shouting and leather and boots; if you're looking for someone who dresses up in leather uniforms and is covered in tattoos, I'm not your man (but, as ever, YKIOK). Age play and puppy/kitten training are also interests.

Ultimately I'd like a relationship with an intelligent sub/switchy woman, but, see the note above about how I see my role is being complimentary to the person I'm with. I am as much interested in what's in your head as is in your underwear. I'm very open to others' kinks but there has to be a strong element of control for me; the whips, the restraints, are the manifestation of psychological control, not a substitute for it.

Aside from the usual work, play, holidays, etc., I'm really interested in history (especially the medieval world), political debate, music (playing, listening to, arguing about), science, skiing, running, and mucking about with old cars.

I read voraciously, have a background in the sciences and law, and play a few different instruments. My favourite places are museums, mountains, and anywhere I probably shouldn't be. Life is really busy right now as I am trying to combine work with training for a marathon and doing a part time masters, but luckily I don't need too much sleep to function. I occasionally write erotica, when the inspiration hits me, which is generally when I should be thinking about something work-related....

I'm still eligible for the under 35s munch, and must get along soon... UPDATE: well, that was fun. Thanks all

Inspired by @Dark_Cherry, I must get a list of things to do before I hit the big 40 together. Many of them (but not all) will be pervy. Well, doing an engine swap can be painful and filthy, but I've yet to see anyone list that as a fetish.

I am: painfully honest, very musical, mainly straight but a wee bit bi-curious, older than I look, more than happy to admit what I don't know, and adamant that BDSM has to be about artistry, soul, sweat and psyche. There's something delicious about the sound you get when you spank a bottom in *just* the right spot. The single biggest switch on for me is a girl who doesn't take herself to seriously; life is too short.

I am not: interested in stupid, ignorant, small-minded or smelly people, interested in any way in being near poo, urine or excessive amounts of saliva, totally happy with this profile, unable to take a hint.

Come up and say hi at munches, u35s drinks etc. 'How do you pronounce that name?' is a popular opener

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This profile was last updated on 15 Feb 12, 4:44 PM.

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