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IC Name: Gentledom14 Joined: 28 Jul 2005 Last visit: 31 minutes ago Sex/gender: Male Location: North England, UK Age: 39

WARNING Profile tends to go on a bit, so in case you can't be arsed, next bit is for you

Dom male seeks sub female, she must be kinky, loving and not a bloody looney for a "Taken In Hand" Relationship.

The next bit you can read if you happen to be bored enough or you are having trouble sleeping.

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Back after a year away, wondering if ic is the same old place or has my ideal sexy minx come this way.

Lack of network is due to deleting my profiles, but I'm an open book so will prove myself genuine at any time asked In any way that i can.

I'm not some made up Dom trying to get easy sex that I can get at my local. I'm open and honest and a realist looking for love rather than just sex. I'm very loving so kisses hugs and long tender moments are a must.

I seek a woman who wants to be the woman.

I seek a lady who prefers control from her lover and not some guy who lets her wear the trousers. Some may call this old fashioned and maybe so, but that doesn't mean it's wrong for many of us.

I define a Dom as in, I am in control, I lead, I reward and I punish the girl who willingly serves me. The rest is just add-ons, some bits I love, some bits I leave.

My ideal woman would be lass that isn't submissive because she lacks confidence, but is sub because it makes her happy, she thrives on pleasing and serving a man. Her natural place is to obey her man. Thousands of years of evolution this was the case and this doesn't change overnight. She loves to follow, she loves to be serving, looking after his needs rather than her own.

This doesn't mean I don't treat my girl like a princess when she has been good; Romance is a big thing for me, holding hands, hugging and kissing. Good girls get kisses and hugs and treated with all the love she could ever want. I look after my girl, I treat her well when she deserves. I am a one woman man, never unfaithful.

But order and rules work, they provide a foundation for a happy and long-lasting relationship. The use of punishments when needed does away with arguments, friction and other common cracks found in vanilla relationships when both of the couple fight for the upper hand.

Not that a lady isn't allowed to express her opinions and Show her wants and needs, but a woman who knows her place will allow her Dom to be the overriding authority; and accept that his will is for the good of the relationship.

A lady in public and my whore in the bedroom, is an old saying, And what I wish for my sub to be.

I would expect my sub to be a sexual person who likes to be sexually Dominated and treated like a piece of meat, someone who gets off with being used for his pleasure, but also other times to enjoy making love with romance and tenderness, to be the princess in every romance novel. This all depends on the situation and mood. She would be someone who gives her body to belong to her Dom, for his needs more than her own and is proud of this fact.

I am seeking a Very long term relationship, but while I am single I am open to play with single females and couples.

This is just a part of my life. I'm not lost in the web life that so many on here have. I have many vanilla interests outside BDSM, but without a true submissive woman I'm incomplete.

I live life to the full and don't take it to seriously. I'm a fun loving guy, Love to travel,(though seeking the ideal companion to do more), love to learn new things, very kinky and expect the same.

I love (in no particular order): travel, pubs, fitness/gym, movies, american tv, camping, hiking, consoles, reading, Sci-fi, internet, Pizzas, afternoon naps and family. I'm a geek yet im cool. I'm a fashion disaster but with help I look good.

Though I am up north, I will travel all over for the right girl, I would relocate any place in the UK for a very special girl, but this would only be for the perfect match and circumstances.

I have had mainly BDSM relationships since the age of 18. Some hardcore (yea this is open to interpretation), others loving and romantic, as long as I am in charge I can alter the intensity of the relationship to suit the girl. It is like in any relationship a question of give and take.

No pressure just friends, I dont expect anything but friendly chats. I seek friendship first, Girlfriend second and then and only then if we are a match your submission.

If my profile interests you, don't be shy and drop me a line. xx

Due to the nature of the net, I will show myself on cam to prove myself genuine and expect the same. All I expect is a couple of minutes of the face, why? - well a lot of the profiles of here are fake, trolls, time wasters, sad men and pinched photos etc etc (don't ask me why these people do it).

I don't want to see you naked on cam and neither do I want to wave my cock at you.

If you happen to have a few real life contacts then that's also proof, as is a photo taken holding something I suggest. As long as some effort is made for verification from your part.

Please don't bother emailing me if this In any way is a problem.

The Above is my only rule at this stage.

And, seriously if you got this far reading my profile im impressed.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: brown   Height: 6ft   Weight: 13st 3lb   BMI: 24.9  

This profile was last updated on 15 May 12, 9:54 PM.

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