I do love to get out and about on the Midland Scene. Some of the events that I attend are:

• The Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar (BBB), My favorite event and one that I very rarely miss
• Beyond Bizarre (The BBB After Party)
• Exodus
• The Facility
• Deviants Club & other events at Topcat Club

I also occasionally attend events outside of the Midlands such as:

• SWAMP
• LAM

I enjoy Munches. I sometimes attend The or other local Munches. I very occasionally attend Munches in other parts of the country.

For more details of the events that I enjoy attending, please click here here

I feel that all BDSM/Fetish events, including Munches should be only attended by consenting adults. This is to protect the integrity and reputation of the event and all people who attend it.

If you see me at any event, please come over and say hello. I have very genuine reasons for not having a picture of myself on this site, but I can make pictures available should genuine people want to see them for identification, or just plain curiosity.

I am interested in many areas of BDSM (see below), although I do have a few hard limits. BDSM is a large part of who I am, it helps to define me as a person and without it, I would not be complete.

My main kinks are:

• Humiliation, combined with D/s and exhibitionism
• Impact Play.

I find the former works best if there is an erotic side to it, but often a light heartedness to the scene helps too. This is one of my favorite examples of this type of scene.

Having said that, there is a lot more to me than BDSM. My scene life is very important to me, but so are the vanilla parts of my life.

I am Dom to the core. To me, being a Dom involves a lot of different skills and attributes. There is much more to it than being able to swing a flogger! I believe that a good Dom needs a balance of skills and traits. To me being a Dom is as much about caring, nurturing and protecting your sub as it is about dominating, controlling and punishing them.

BDSM should be about mutual pleasure, it does not work if it is one sided. I love to experiment and I am constantly learning and developing as I progress through the scene. I can be a strict and harsh Master, but I can also be loving and caring.

I consider myself to be reasonably intelligent and fairly well educated. I would describe myself as quietly confident. I have a good sense of humour and tend to make friends easier with people who also like to laugh. I do not take things, including myself too seriously.

I love to chat to people and make friends with people who are into the BDSM scene. People that I can chat to online or meet at local events and Munches. I am not bothered about their sexual orientation, gender, whether they are Dom, Switch or sub, or indeed what their particular fetishes are. I would just like to make friends with/chat to anyone with BDSM and/or fetish interests, about their interests and to swap ideas with like minded people.

I don't want to clog up my profile with reams of stuff about me, but if you want to know more about me, try the following links:

• For more about my BDSM interest, please click here
• If you want to know a bit about my vanilla interests, please click here