Hello everyone, I am a Midlands based Dom, and the proud owner of subdawn , slave number 478-821-760 who is not only my sub/slave, but also my friend, lover and partner. I am a regular attendee at the BBB, an event that I very rarely miss. I sometimes attend other Midlands events such as Unleashed, Ceasars, Scarlet and The Dudley Dungeon. I also attend events outside of the Midlands such as SWAMP, and LAM, occasionally. If you see me at any event, please come over and say hello. I have very genuine reasons for not having a picture of myself on this site, but I can make pictures available should genuine people want to see them for identification, or just plain curiosity.

I am interested in most forms of BDSM (see below), although I do have a few hard limits. BDSM is a large part of who I am, it helps to define me as a person and without it, I would not be complete. Having said that, there is a lot more to me than BDSM. My scene life is very important to me, but so are the vanilla parts of my life. I am Dom to the core. To me, being a Dom involves a lot of different skills and attributes. There is much more to it than being able to swing a flogger! I believe that a good Dom needs a balance of skills and traits. To me being a Dom is as much about caring, nurturing and protecting your sub as it is about dominating, controlling and punishing them. BDSM should be about mutual pleasure, it does not work if it is one sided. I love to experiment and I am constantly learning and developing as I progress through the scene. I can be a strict and harsh Master, but I can also be loving and caring. I consider myself to be reasonably intelligent and fairly well educated. I would describe myself as quietly confident. I have a good sense of humour and tend to make friends easier with people who also like to laugh. I do not take things, including myself too seriously. I love to chat to people and make friends with people who are into the BDSM scene. People that I can chat to online or meet at local events and Munches. I am not bothered about their sexual orientation, gender, whether they are Dom, Switch or sub, or indeed what their particular fetishes are. I would just like to make friends with/chat to anyone with BDSM and/or fetish interests, about their interests and to swap ideas with like minded people.

Additional Information

I don't want to clog up my profile with reams of stuff about me, but if you want to know more about me, try the following links: For more about my BDSM interest, please click here If you want to know a bit about my vanilla interests, please click here

Gary.