My check list [see below] covers a wide range of activities and is neither exclusive nor compulsory. As an example of this I am quite willing to do 'watersports' but WS is not a 'core activity' for me and I can equally do without it. I am a firm believer in negotiation! My photo may appear stern but I do have a sense of humour. Go to my home page and look at the pictures there for some proof... http://bondage.com/i/1202036/user_pictures.html

While I am happy to just play I must stress that I am seeking a long term relationship. You can learn more about my relationship goals at: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/Endorphin_pus... or go to 'home page' above.

My interests outside of BDSM include photography, computers, driving and camping. I enjoy visiting the English countryside and photographing regional events and old country churches. I like walking on beaches and sitting by the sea. http://www.flickr.com/photos/barryslemmings/sets... to see a selection of my photographs covering all subjects.

Whatever you are seeking please feel free to contact me and discuss it. All applications are treated with utmost confidence.

I cane, I whip, I cuddle.

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MORE ABOUT ME FROM MY WEBLOGS:

Setting the scene http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Flogher...

Whips and canes 1 http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Flogher...

Whips and canes 2 http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Flogher...

Whips and canes 3 http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Flogher...

Skin games http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Flogher...

Dealing with the media http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Flogher...

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FAVOURITE LINKS:

BDSM article which I co-wrote,

BDSM article which I wrote,

More pictures of myself,

Lance and Longbow Society,

East London [Hornchurch] munch

Highly inappropriate object of my lust and depravity...

...and she does religious scenes as well!