WHO I AM:

I'm a 53 year old Dominant.Divorced with no baggage I am very pleased to say.I live on the coast.

Who,having been interested in the D/s Bdsm lifestyle for many years has just reached a more convenient stage in life to comfortably express my darker side, and explore the lifestyle that I have craved.

Whether this be going to munches local or long distance, scene events ( again local or L.D.) chatting online and then meeting like-minded souls in real life,I am comfortable with any, and each will help me gain more knowledge and experience, to then put into practice.

I prefer to be monogamous and totally focussed on MY sub, if this is not for you,then stop reading from this point on.

I have been called a " GENTLEMAN " by some people .It is who I am .The day to day courtesies and good manners I show to people I like to think will be reflected back to me.Afterall,If I can not behave properly with respect and integrity what does that say about me as a person?

Friends and family tell me that I am caring ,extremely loyal ,patient and yes in the given circumstances ,gentle and Kind. But most of all I am Observant,astute and read people very well ( due to the training and nature of my past careers, just ask and I will tell you) .

However i do have a devilish dark imagination that I like to unexpectedly drop into Play scenes,not sadism as such, but a desire to push against your perceived boundaries and also to investigate one anothers responses.I prefer feedback from you, and will listen to you as well as watch your body-language,and then redefine play scenes that havent quite worked for either of us .

Most of all play should be about FUN, rib tickling, Laughing till your crying FUN! How can I seriously stay in Cold-Aloof-Dom-Mode when my playmate is expressing themselves so openly, honestly and humourously,in such a vocal way?

WHAT do I enjoy in everyday life ?

I enjoy socialising ,intelligent conversation ,good company around me be that family or friends,reading ,driving and foreign travel to name but a few .

My Kink interests are varied but includes socialising at events and munches,Bondage of various types, ,flogging , caning ,spanking , predicament play , to name a few,with yet still more to explore,with the right person, ofcourse .

I am here to seek out,improve my knowledge and understanding of Kink, meet up with positive people through munches, events and play.

My sub and I are vaguely interested in working with couples,would be a powerful fantasy rush into reality for us.

Let the journey and memos commence

Rick.