"For so long I tried to be someone else, I forgot how to be who I am." This sentence sums me up very well, I've made allot of mistakes, I've been hurt by people and hurt others who didn't deserve it because of my own demons and insecurities.

The text in this profile is broken, in so much that parts have been written at different times and whilst I was in different moods and I've left it like this because it feels more honest.

I am a geek, I have a large collection of computer games, a home full of wonderful and ultimately useless gadgets and I have a train set which I love.

I am a perv, I'd call myself switch but I hate trying to define myself, kink is my vice, I love rope, corsets, bondage, sensory deprivation, pain, humiliation and allot of things that always seem to be labelled as edge play which depending on my mood I love to dish it out or receive!

Forever changing, I contradict myself constantly, misspell and mispronounce words sometimes even the most simple.

I am also lucky enough to be the partner of a wonderful and gorgeous girl who gives me the space I need to soar yet keep me grounded and love her for being the patient, caring and firm muse, ying to my ever wacky yang.

I'm friendly enough to talk to, and very occasionally to love.

Want to know more feel free to message me and have a natter, I'm usually lurking around the web somewhere

Sam

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For years I've pondered on what "all this," is. To me, it's everything and nothing. I could argue how it doesn't affect who I am how it doesn't define who I am or my sexuality but it does... It's a big part of my life, there are my facets to who I am but sexually I am open minded adventurous and a deviant little sod. I'm timid by some standards and extreme by far more!

I could say how long I've been on the scene etc but I will simply say this is something I've been doing my whole life, never has there been a time where I've considered my sexuality and BDSM as separate entities.

My profile says switch but that's just a general label what I am is someone who has a sadistic streak a mile wide, who enjoys a variety of alternative pursuits and occasionally likes to give up that power and receive some abuse instead!

My big, big things are bondage the stricter the better, shibari, humiliation, knives and violence!

I'm a complicated person hard to know, yet easy to love. I have bi-polar and various other quirks that make me seem stand offish but I come as I am and learned long I can't apologise for who I am.

In my day to day life you'll find me doing something tech related or other, I collect retro consoles and surf and sail whenever possible (which in fairness has been far too long of late). I'm passionate about all my pursuits and have far more than listed, as I am about this and as much as it doesn't rule me it's never far away.

As for what I'm looking for, I will sum up by saying good people and good conversation, I have a large poly family who I love and am eternally grateful!

Eye colour: Hazel   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 6ft 5in  

This profile was last updated on 13 Dec 10, 5:48 PM.

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