I am tall, slim, monogamous, professional person and easy to get on with. I believe in being open and honest in a relationship. From there trust and commitment can grow. I believe in living in the here and now. Each moment has value, is a gift - I certainly don't always see that at the time but each is a step in my dance through life. I'm delighted when I get memos so if you want to make me smile don't hang back. Rope bunnies, in fact any bunnies, do call.

I am not concerned with property, fashion or proving myself. I am interested in people. I have looked for a partner that is open and honest with nothing hidden, prepared to commit, knows her own mind and is open to new adventures. I know this is demanding.

My list of 'interests' is just that and not a 'must have' list, and vanilla interests are important as is the mutual fun factor. I am careful about safety and personal discipline is important to me. Oh, I took them off. Must do something about that.

Vanilla life is a significant factor. I'm involved with adults as a life skills and self esteem mentor.. I like the outdoors, mountains, sunsets over seas, grass under my feet. Red wine and endless cups of tea, cooking and music and art, tending toward the eclectic. I enjoy 'making' and like to employ my imagination to realise BDSM equipment (as well as more mundane items).

I like the rhythm of the cane and crop or flogger as well as improvised items (I just discovered 'hot rods'). I enjoy spontaneous and adventurous S&M play and I'm confident with rope bondage, suspension and restraint but rather than a list of activities I like 'joined up' play. I occasionally do demos for clubs and munches or other teaching. I get to a number of munches including Leeds, York, Manchester and Chesterfield,as well as Nemesis, BBB and Peer Rope.

I believe that people involved in D/s relationships should develop an honest and intimate knowledge of each other based on mutual respect and open communication and this I am prepared to take time developing.

"Sometimes the heart should follow the mind.

Sometimes the heart should tell the mind to stay at home and stop interfering". . . . . . . .Edward Monkton

'Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it'