Epicurus

IC Name: Epicurean_Soul Joined: 3 Dec 2009 Last visit: 11 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: OX (Oxford), UK Age: 56

After about a year away from IC I have decided to come back. Looking forward to seeing old friends again and making new ones.

ABOUT YOU

Are you looking for something different? A little less mundane? Do we have to conform? Can we be unconventional in which the roles of dominance and submission suit us both perfectly?

ABOUT ME

I am NOT the kneel bitch type of dom. Just because you are submissive does not mean you don't command respect and at all times you deserve trust, respect care and love.

I am educated and articulate. I have an open and adventurous mind and seek friendships that cross the conventional boundaries.

I do have a vanilla life that is rewarding and fulfilling. There are times when the two lifestyles merge.

I live on my own and I am divorced with 2 grown children and apart from a non conventional outlook on life I am normal and a non smoker, I don't mind if you smoke though.

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR?

Well if we all knew that then we would all be very happy. But it has to be FUN! Life is too short to be taken too seriously. This is the only chance we have and we are a long time dead.

My motto? Make people laugh and enjoy life.

THE KINKY BIT

I am a sensitive caring dom, the boundaries are set by you. Sometimes pushed but never broken. Just because we can enjoy ourselves in a non conventional way doesn't mean we have to exclude conventional play.

For me Kink is about heightening the senses, from the lightest touch of a feather to something more extreme. Your imagination is the most powerful stimulant, will you let me play with your imagination?

I also believe that trust is paramount so that you can relax in the situation and enjoy it without tension or worry, that is not to say that a certain amout of the unknown is not enjoyable. Life if just full of paradoxes.

Hey if you have got this far and if the above makes sense to you then get in touch. I won't bite (well not this early in our friendship) and would love to hear from you.

I live between Reading and Oxford.

Have a nice day and enjoy life

A final serious bit I am NOT into disfigurement or serious pain, or pain just as an end. Abuse is just that; Abuse. Whether physical or mental and it is reprehensible. However you dress them up a bully is still a bully and I don't like them. Sorry to put this in but for me it is very important.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 6in   Weight: 11st 10lb   BMI: 26.3  

This profile was last updated on 10 Mar 12, 9:26 PM.

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