I am young woman who adores fairy tales and they have skewed my vision of reality. It's safe to say that, in a relationship, if I don't feel like a princess adored by her hero, then it won't work out. That said, the hero is the one who does all the hard stuff; the lady looks good and smooths his brow. I like the thought of D/s relationships; they seem to have the traditional gender roles I seek down pat. I haven't had a D/s relationship yet.

I am not a 'kneel bitch' kinda girl. I am an intelligent and educated person with talent, creativity and passion; if you want a doormat look elsewhere. There is no fun in submission unless it has been earned. I challenge people constantly and that will never change, not even for a master.

When it comes to play, I'm a switch. When I sub, I enjoy role play, bondage, d+s, and very low pain s+m. When I Domme, I like s+m, humiliation, d+s, and objectification. My partner has said I have a submissive nature, always wanting to serve and please him. I started doing S+M to suit his masochism. Between lifer's and kinky-sex-er's, I'm in the "kinky sex" category, rather than lifestyle. But like I said, I'm interested in D/s.

I'm seeing Private_Tart; I don't cheat and can't do poly so any activity I might get up to must be cleared with him first. Moreover I can't see doing D/s without a love connection, so for now, I am not looking for a master.