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Young, free and single again!! Time for adventures. Masters and dominants, real ones, I need to hear from you.... The thing that I have learned from my past relationships is that, sex and bdsm aside, I need a man with a sense of spirit and adventure, not a man ready to retire in front of the television. That's been a universal relationship ender. If you don't rock'n'roll through life, it won't work!
However, I'm not really looking for LTR or love ever after, just at the moment I need different experiences with different people, exploration and fun.
As for me, I will let the words of Anais Nin speak for me:
| I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. |
| I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. |
| I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living. |
| I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvellous that only the marvellous has power over me. Anything I cannot transform into something marvellous, I let go. Reality doesn't impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls. |
| There are two ways to reach me: by way of kisses or by way of the imagination. But there is a hierarchy: the kisses alone don't work. |
You will probably have guessed by now that I am a 'strong submissive', able to switch for fun, but the deep down need is to submit to someone worthy of that submission. I came late in life to my fetish pleasures, around ten years ago, but I have taken so much from this wonderful little world. I love fear play, especially breath play, but any play where the perceived threat is very significant. I love being very quietly and calmly controlled and pushed slowly but very surely into the scene, and held to it, so that when that fearfulness is seen, it produces no panic but acceptance.
I love pony play, and my own version of puppy play, which is, for me, all about the lack of language, that complicated and restraining communication humans are held in check by. The pony has her head, she can be strong, wilful, playful, mischievous: there is no right or wrong, simply her Master's will and ability to take control of all that passion. The puppy, a yappy, nuzzling, hungry-for-affection creature, seeks reassurance and affirmation, and gives tail-wagging love in return.
I love constraint and bondage: restrain the body to free the mind, but make it a beautiful process while you're there. Why is the female so beautiful when bound? Even more beautiful when gagged? I don't know, but it's a strong reaction deep within all of us to react to that particular beauty. To react violently, sometimes, rapine and despoiling are deep within the human mindset. Beauty and violence, beauty and wickedness are separated by a thin, thin line, and for me, BDSM is this line. The thinner it gets, the more exciting it is.the woman...
I live on the Cote d'Azur (well, someone has to!!), and I have several businesses. Painting, decorating, renovation and project management in villa-land, and life coaching, largely online in the UK. Specialist areas confidence, exploration of sexuality, gender and fetish. Followed by by very practical work on dating, profile writing, getting out into the big bad world and making the most of living.
Elle
Eye colour: Blue Hair colour: Brunette Height: 5ft 10in Weight: 11st 3lb BMI: 22.3
This profile was last updated on 24 May 12, 2:30 PM.
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