I'm all dressed in rubber with nowhere to go......

IC Name: DoraExplorer Joined: 11 Oct 2007 Last visit: 14 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: CO (Colchester), UK Age: 42

Update - really not looking for anyone at the moment as going through a bit of a downtime phase kinkwise. I'm content and happy with my kinky friends as company, but hey, I'm a girl, so I'll probably change my mind in a few weeks!!!!!!!!!

Hellooooooo! How lovely to meet you! I am Dora, a slightly bonkers, but very nice girl who happens to be a bit of a kinky whatnot.

At this momment in time, I have decided that I am perfectly happy as I am and to that extent, am not really looking. HOWEVER - its a big however, if that really amazing and special man came along and swept me off my feet, then it might be a different story!

A bit about the physical me - I am not a skinny minnie by any stretch, and although I am happy in my skin, I'll be the first to admit I could lose a few pounds here and there! My hair is long and dark, and I have no future plans to cut it. I have piercings, which I LOVE and am now the proud owner of 2 lovely tattoos. I am also planning a large backpiece, so, if tattoos put you off, then I guess you may as well stop reading now!

In my vanilla world, I like many different things and actually have a tangible "things to do" list with everything on it that I would like to achieve before I pop my clogs. Think I am possibly a bit of a girly geek? I have a vast thirst for knowledge and soak up useless information like a sponge on heat! This is perhaps why I am often attracted to slightly geeky men with whom I think I can have a half decent and intelligent conversation! I also love architecture in all forms, in particular the designs of Horta and Goudi, so also HAVE to visit Barcelona for the latter reason alone. I am basically just as happy having a great outdoors adventure with someone, as I am being wrapped tightly in rope - as long as I am with that special person.

And so....................to the DARK side

I have experienced a few clubs now and am trying my best to make the Cambridge Munch a regular when I can, and I have to say, I'm really enjoying the social side of this life very much. In a fetish world, I have discovered that my true self lies within the realms of bondage and being being "bottom" to anothers "top". I have also realised, through reading a very interesting blog from someones profile, that I am not a submissive, in that I dont freely give myself to another easily and that maybe I tend towards the masochistic more? That probably sounds selfish, but I feel that total honesty is the best policy when you are potentially going to be entering into a relationship with someone and trusting that person.

And so, it leaves me feeling slightly confused in some ways. I hate the "compartments" that we are supposed to label oursleves with, ie - sub/dom, top/bottom etc. I feel that I have so many facets to my personality, that it would almost be impossible to define where I fit in. So I can only state the things that I know to be true.....

I like to be tied and bound by a strong man - and by strong, I mean mentally, not necessarily physically. I like being placed in layer upon layer of bondage..........restrained and restricted by rubber, hoods, shackles, chains and rope. I like to feel secure and safe, able to float away into my own cyberspace world, knowing that I am being looked after and watched by the man who who has my trust.

And what you would get in return for that so generous giving that I would recieve..... Loyalty and love. Tenderness and patience. A hand to hold when you need MY strength. A shoulder to lay your head on when you feel the day has been too long,and arms to hold you tightly so you know I am your rock.

I am an optimist. I know that such an exquisite and wonderful relaitonship can exist because I have been there before. Because of this, I know that I am looking for a very special person to share my life with, and I also know that if that person doesnt come along, then I would rather have my life alone rather than be with someone for the sake of it.

Are you out there?

Ok, just to clarify ********** has ocurred to me that I might come across a bit like Olive from On the Buses, what with some of the geeky things I have in my profile! Please be assured that I am actually a relatively attractive girl with hips, arse and boobs!

Update*********just to add, I am really looking for someone around my own age or just slightly older, and if you're a smoker, then thanks, but no thanks! Might sound picky but there you go!

Update number two************Plese note, I am not a sub, therefore, if you try to tell me to do something, I'm likely to get you to take a short trip to where the sun dont shine! I also NEVER top. This is an important point, as I seem to get an awful lot of male subs contacting me, who try to tell me they are really Doms, but have a 100% sub profile......I'm not interested!!!!!!!!!

So as for my likes and interests, well, I LOVE bondage of any kind and ropework. I like chains and shackles, needleplay and fisting (vaginal), gags, hoods, rubber and corsets, and in fact most things, apart from blood, scat, knives, anal and threesomes. I did like watersports but have gone off them now I'm afraid due to a rather over zealous twat I met on here, who had a thing for cold urine.....

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: dark brown   Height: 5ft 4in  

This profile was last updated on 4 Apr 11, 1:13 PM.

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