The arty distant look

IC Name: Domitri Joined: 21 Jun 2006 Last visit: 82 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: South Yorkshire, UK Age: 56

The 'other' me will reveal itself to the right person in time. I need to get to know you first, not just the kinky you. So what follows something of the 'vanilla' me, in some detail for those kind enough to spare the time to read it.

I'm 6'2'', slim build, blue eyes, darkish hair. I have been told by friends that I have a look of Louis Theroux about me, or even Tom Conti. Others (less friendly perhaps) say the resemblance is more of a clean shaven Groucho Marx.

I am a pianist & composer and writer. I play anything from jazz to classical. For a small fee I will play Abba and Meatloaf. For a huge fee I will play Lloyd Webber but the sums of money involved here are prohibitive. I can serenade you with Nina Simone and Rachmaninov but not necessarily at the same time.

I am largely domesticated (I even leave the loo seat down) but my cooking is erratic; my fish pie has been widely praised. My cheese cake has been widely binned. Believe it or not - and I swear this is true - I once lost a boiled egg. It vanished from the pan. Jonathon Creek was completely baffled.

In a former life (if I've had one) I was probably a pirate - a terminally inept, very nice, kind and benevolent pirate, unless aroused. The sort who would give his men paternity leave, give the crew the use of the firm's rowing boat at weekends, tie Spanish maidens to the mast and tell her jokes. Torture was only offered as an optional extra. Shortly after that I was a vampire; deadly but totally inoffensive.

I love to debate but hate to argue. I am passionate about everything I do, just as I am passionate about freedom, equality and justice. When people become angry rather than passionate, it's best to treat them as if they were drunk.

With me you will get someone who is devoted, loving, tactile, affectionate and unafraid to show emotions. I will be loyal and you will be able to trust me.

Tchaikovsky breaks my heart because he writes from the heart. Don't confuse that with sentimentality - it's a Russian thing. Beethoven lifts my soul. Lloyd Webber causes me internal bleeding.

I love to give, receive and witness small acts of kindness, given freely with no ulterior motive or expectation of reward. In the end, it's only love and kindness that really matter.

You will have noticed an absence of BDSM discussion in this profile. That's because BDSM will be an essential part of our relationship, not the sum of it.

In short, I am the kind of Dom whom you can take home to meet your Mother. I'll behave well, know what kind of fork to use and treat you like a Princess. In other circumstances I will treat you like a worthless slut.

You can be a novice and know nothing... I'll teach you and I'll be patient with you. Or you can have a world of experience and there's still the whole universe of BDSM out there for us to explore, in a real partnership, a unique journey for us both.

I'm tough, make no mistake about it, but I hope I'm also an honourable man who has a lot to offer both in and out of BDSM.

I look forward to hearing from you...

Domitri

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 6ft 2in   Weight: 11st 12lb   BMI: 21.1  

This profile was last updated on 16 Jun 11, 11:08 AM.

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