I can be very strict but fair and understanding.Although mature I am young looking and acting I am definitely not a timewaster and expect the same, as well as complete honesty right from the start I am hopefully looking for a long-term relationship not necessarily 24/7 or playing every night as life does sometimes get in the way, with a female of any age up to mid 40's; slim to medium build of any race.

I am practical and realise the difficulty of finding a good and reliable sub, having had no long-term relationship for 3years, so in the meantime I am also open to casual meetings with females or couples and happy to instruct newcomers in a safe sane enviroment.

However I am looking for more than casual fun. I would prefer to meet someone in the West Lanc's or Yorkshire area for practical reasons of regular meets to build up a relationship but again am open to contacts from anywhere, as I travel extensively. Please contact for any further details.

I am happy to receive sensible and genuine memos from all subs/slaves and understand that it may be difficult for you contact a Dom directly and feel you have given out wrong signals. But I know how many memos subs receive most of which are the usual one-liners etc. I therefore now very rarely contact subs via memo preferring munches.

So if you think I may be what you are looking for lets at least chat if the chemistry is there well who knows. Or just say hi at one of the munches. If it's not at least we have both made a new friend on the scene.

What does my sub get out of this in the long term? More than anything, she gets loved. She gets respected for who she really is, and helped to become who she wants to be. She gets someone who will bring her breakfast in bed now and again, remember her birthday, cuddle her when she's down, laugh with her when she happy. Someone who will be there for her when she feels lonely, even at 4am, be it on the other end of the phone, or next to her in bed. She gets someone who will be proud when she kneels at his feet and looks up at him. I don't want to settle for anything less - do you?

Yes I can be romantic as well is that really a problem?

Honesty and openness are essential as is a great sense of humour. It has to be fun, loving and caring or it aren't gonna fly

PLEASE NOTE do not contact me via Yahoo pretending to be a female and saying you saw my profile on IC YOU WILL BE IGNORED unless I know you.

My favorite poem for that special someone keep smiling for me. You know who you are.

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood,

and I- I took the one less travelled by,

And that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost

Below is only a guideline everything is negotiable.