This is my new profile, it is still in progress, so not entirely polished or completed yet, but give it a little time...

Meanwhile, my old profile is located at the bottom of page.

I work, play, and very occasionally sleep. Admittedly I don't work anything like as much as I'd like thanks to the miracle of recession! Which does give me a lot of time to write, mostly poetry and stories (there's a few in the link at the top)

I have an eight year old son, who I'm sure I'll bore you with stories of if we spend any reasonable amount of time getting to know each other.

I would say the primary reason for my involvement in this style of kink is based on my particular talent of reading people's emotions. Then once I have an understanding of the motivations and reasons behind their desires and actions, being able to manipulate those feelings and extract emotions that I'm interested in pushing.

That could sound like quite a scary thing to read at first brush, but maybe in another light you'll see what I mean. We all come to these things to feel an emotion of one form or another, ALL of the physical acts we perform on each other are to illicit a feeling, be that fear, humiliation, love, joy, or ecstasy and quite possibly all of those things at once.

If a particular emotion has a certain effect, then understanding the reasons for that emotions effect will make it far easier and far more powerful if the exact nature of that emotion is understood.

Because I am certainly tired of being mistaken for that stereotype, if you are expecting somebody to tell you to submit to them in the first message, to order you to kneel by the second paragraph (do they actually expect a woman to fall to her knees at the keyboard? Are these people that stupid? Have I missed a point?)

I am here to encounter interesting people, and if I happen upon the right person I am ultimately looking to find somebody to form a long term relationship with.

For that reason, if I have sent you a message you can expect it to be polite and courteous, one day I may call you a bitch and a whore, however it will not be until there is some sort of connection formed, and it is an appropriate thing for the moment. I don't believe discussions about sexuality should occur in an opening message, that message should simply be for the purpose of expressing an interest in somebody. If you send me an opening message I expect, nay I demand, that you follow the same rules as I have just set out. Please do not set out under the assumption that a quick list of things you would like a man to do to you will win you favour with me, it does not, it will cheapen my image of you and negate the possibility of things developing further. Show me you are an intelligent and interesting woman and command my attention.

I know my value in this place, I know I am one of the more interesting conversations you will find here, I am intelligent, quick witted and mischievous with a woman that has my attention. However I am also obnoxious, rude and impatient with those that cross me.

I should probably have a few words about what it is I am actually looking for, in terms of my kinks and interests.

I want to find a sub girl I can explore with, who, initially is enjoyed purely in a 'reasonably' vanilla D/s relationship, that can be a solid ground for an experimental environment that will sustain a physical and intellectual relationship as it grows and solidifies. In that context I don't believe I have any limits (apart from typical) I am generally a gentle and kind person, with a huge mischievous streak, that can manifest into quite a sadistic streak when the time takes me. She will need to be willing to accommodate whatever limits we mutually discover along such a journey.

I want a woman who can help me discover what all of that means to me. But I would suspect that would only encompass a one facet of, what would hopefully be, a very multifaceted relationship. I want a D/s relationship because I enjoy the dynamics of the power exchange. Having someone for whom a look will indicate my approval / displeasure etc, to have someone to teach and develop to become the perfect submissive for me, has very obvious and direct appeal.

I want a relationship where creative juices are the major exchange rather than bodily ones (although, that would still be a major aspect of!) she needs to be an equal, and able to keep up with me mentally (that's not too difficult a task most days!) she needs to have a fire in her belly, I don't wish for a yes girl, because there is no challenge in taming that type of spirit and I thrive on challenge of these things. If you are looking for someone who will start giving you tasks very early on, then you probably need to move on because that isn't me, for me tasks take an understanding of the girl involved, requiring a mutual respect and attraction to make it anything other than a naive and clichéd tool.

On a slightly more general note, I am not an overly easy person to get to know, people either really catch my attention or they fade away, I'm not much good at the social butterfly thing, I have a group of very close friends, and very few actually make it through to join those ranks. I believe I am worth the effort of getting to know, and I'm aware that sometimes I have lost potential connections because that initial connection was never properly maintained. Basically, if you really want to get to know me, catch my attention...

That will do for now, if you are interested and wish to know me, send me a message and who knows what might occur.

Kind regards, Michael