I definitely regard myself as a Dominant guy, though it appears I am pretty unique within that category. Enigmatic, positive, dry witty sense of humour, intelligent, educated, and fair but judgemental. Painfully honest and quite direct.

Yes I am single and I play with others, would like to meet my soul mate, though she would need to be very special, few of the qualities would be, demure, fun loving, happy, positive, understanding, tactile, cheeky and loyal.

The reason I put unique as I don't really go in for the Sir/Master type, I only expect to be called Sir when it's said tongue in cheek, and you are looking to get my attention. I have played on the scene as some of you will know, and find I can easily get into a sub's mind enhancing their play. I have done the rope work the dungeon scenarios and all other aspects, which all have there place and merits; however, my greatest love is more the traditional domestic style play. I love a woman who is a bit of a brat and will challenge me creating her own demise. Where we both understand each others wants and desires and openly have fun. The most basic purpose in life is to be happy, everything else no matter how necessary are secondary.

The Vanilla bit

I love music most genres it would be easier to state what I do not like hate rap it isn't music, and thump, thump “tecno” not really into the 70's disco music either, I am a dancer, (competition standard) this is partner dancing by the way, more Latin styles, than ballroom though, salsa, tango, cha cha, etc. I am quite fit probably due to the dancing, but I also workout a little to keep in trim. I am an electrician by trade, but quite capable at most trades and enjoy D.I.Y. Behave remember this is the vanilla bit.

One thing I hate and hate with a vengeance is political correctness. It has gone way too far, it stifles personality and freedom, I do go out of my way to be as un-politically correct a possible, just to annoy the self-righteous sheep hide behind its cloak, too scared to be seen as individuals, that they might be judged. Sorry about that but honesty is another of my, traits and I do believe in giving the whole picture.

Another controversial trait, just as it's the sub's job to please, it is also the Dom's job to please to; they just do it with a different attitude. I am still old-fashioned enough to believe in the White Knight on his charger rescuing his damsel in distress and attending to her needs.