IC Name: Diaphanous Joined: 24 Dec 2005 Last visit: 63 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 29

Hi everyone. First of all: Men, I'm NOT looking for anything. I am happily attached.I am strictly a one-man girl and married my one man, @Norm_de_Plume , in November of 2006, and I'm NOT polyamorous. I sub to my husband, but no one else. In 4 1/2 years on the scene, I haven't met anyone else that elicited the slightest feeling of submission in me. And no, I'm not offering this as a challenge, just stating a fact.

Since I first signed up for IC, a few things have changed- I've done a bit more and am exploring new things. I've topped women a few times over the past year or so, and if the situation was right found it to be quite interesting. However, though it's now in my profile, I'm not actively seeking that out. If it happens, it happens, and that's great, but I wouldn't want to engage in anything without my husband being present. I have to have the right sort of rapport with the lady, and be in the right mood as well- topping isn't something I can force. I still consider myself 100% heterosexual, and am not "into" women at all in the sexual sense. I'm still on here primarily to chat, and make some platonic female scene friends.

Now that I have gotten that out of the way, a bit about me. I'm a professional in the performing arts. I do quite a bit of modeling, both mainstream and fetish, on the side. If you are looking for a model (for a PROFESSIONAL purpose I must add)drop me a memo for more info and/or links to my online portfolios. I might seem quite "fluffy" on the surface but have always had a deep love for the scientifically macabre and bizarre. I am currently reading a wonderful book about the funeral industry, for example.

As for the likes/dislikes section, it needs a few more subcategories (no pun intended).Take flogging, for example. I enjoy it, but only with certain implements, and I am not under any circumstances a pain slut. I like my shoes well enough, but do not personally have a shoe fetish. I enjoy being dominated, but only in sexual situations, and not on a full time basis.I am about as far from a slave as you can get and I do not call anyone Master or Mistress, online or off. Aside from very enjoyable forays into sexual submission, I have a VERY dominant personality. If you aren't my husband, I'm not bottoming to you, in any way, shape or form. Any attempts to "cyber-dom" me will be met with the disdain they deserve. I consider myself an exhibitionist(and what performing artist isn't one?) but there are certain things I do not wish to do in front of a crowd. I love wearing corsets but just because I like the way they look. I have extremely long hair that I refuse to cut and that, in the right situations,I like having pulled, but I would not say I have a hair "fetish".

So ladies, if you would like to chat about fetish-related things with another girl, or go on a mutual shopping excursion, because my one man is getting tired of being dragged around Camden corset-shopping, please message!

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 3in   Weight: 7st 2lb   BMI: 17.6  

This profile was last updated on 15 Sep 09, 9:49 PM.

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