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IC Name: DeepDark Joined: 5 Jul 2010 Last visit: 5 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 30

Now single, but currently residing out of the UK, which restricts my IC networking considerably...

I'm not actively looking for a long term relationship right now, but maybe something that falls between the lines.

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What I'm looking for is the intangible thrill deep down.

Needs: To control, dominate, get under your skin, condition and train in a way which borders on manipulation. To break the rules of normal behaviour and engagement between civilised male and female. To explore the dark things in us that we try to suppress.

Attracted to: Objectification, contrasts in personality, psychology, mind-fucking, emotional masochists, good-girl/bad-girl dichotomy.

I like girls who get crushes on other girls, girls who are both sweet and naughty. Blurring the line between cute and sexual excites me.

That's the dark bit, here's some things about my "normal" self.

I'm a caring, friendly educated guy. I work in the media.

I love books, films and music of all ages and genres, travelling, and I'm learning a second language.

I try to stay fit - I run and train.

I consider myself a thoughtful person, yet fun. They're not mutually exclusive.

When I'm not in Dom mode I'm warm and affectionate, and nurturing once you've earned my trust.

I have a very dark Dominant side, but I feel it's a natural part of being a multi-faceted, complex human being, which we all are. I believe it's something to be enjoyed and expressed.

I recently read BDSM described as "some very harsh fantasies enveloped in gentle empathy." That sounds perfect to me.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Dark Brown   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 11st 2lb   BMI: 22.9  

This profile was last updated on 18 Feb 12, 5:33 PM.

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