Me being all dark and scary.

IC Name: DarkAndTwisted Joined: 29 May 2009 Last visit: 221 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: A Very Dark Place, UK Age: 41

OK, so vanilla has been the way of life... but some emerging kinks, a few visits to a fetish club and all the rich and varietous media about BDSM in various formats have changed my perspective on things.

Soon, vanilla began to seem pale and shallow. Sure it can still be enjoyable, but "Oh my God!" there's about a million things I have now seen or imagined, derived a huge amount of pleasure from, but haven't physically experienced! If just seeing or imagining it can be so good then what would it feel like to actually partake?

My life, or at least certain aspects of it, has been wasted.

So with no actual experience outside of vanilla, my thus far private kinks, and plenty of vanilla commitments, I come to this threshold and take a step....

I cannot help but to wonder whether when I finally do open up and show the deepest, darkest, most twisted fantasies and desires my mind has now derived, everyone will say "Oh, you're just a regular guy." or will they look at me in a strange way and then run away screaming with arms flailing in the air?

There's only one way to find out.

On a slightly more serious note, I am actually a person who respects other people, and I have self control. So if the paragraphs above were screaming "axe wielding maniac" at you then please be informed that I only do that stuff with other axe wielding maniacs!

About me:

I have a love of the English language; I can't help but get frustrated when people make posts, memos or emails that are littered with spelling mistakes and poor grammar. I'm not stuck up about it, nor am I immune from making these mistakes myself, but a total lack of effort shown in people's communications tends to put me off. This is a reflection, I suspect, of a certain characteristic of being meticulous in some ways, but not retentively so nor in everything I do. I love music, or at least music that you might say was written and performed by an "artist". My music tastes range so far and wide that there is probably no genre that I wholly dislike... although some offer very limited enjoyment to me. I love watching films of many different varieties. There are probably about 50 other things I could write about to suggest what kind of a person I am, but that would just be plain boring... who would honestly want to know? If anyone does, they can always memo me to ask more

My kinks:

Well, in my opinion my profile name is quite fitting. Lots of people I am sure would not see my particular kinks as dark and twisted, but I am sure that just as many might. I think the first thing about me is that I am certainly "Top" with just a couple of glimmers of "Bottom". I certainly "Dom" too. My imagination on this topic has proven to be almost boundless, but as yet I have only limited experience. I long for the day I look into my partner's eyes and see total and utter submission, giving her every ounce of being to me... now that's just the most I could ever ask for... the perfect honour.

What I look for:

I look for people who foremostly are discreet. I want to make friends with anyone who wants to know me, hoping that I can accumulate knowledge, and in some cases, experience. My ultimate goal is to understand the depths of this kinky me to the full extent. I have to balance myself, and for that I want to know people like myself but more experienced, also people who are "bottom", "Sub" or even "Slave". I want to know people who have almost any type of kink and fetish that's mentioned in this site and some that I am not even sure are mentioned. Basically, if you breathe and have even a glimmer of personality or depth then I would probably want to at least share some memos or be friends. Heck just personality and depth does it really... Hmm, er, after some deliberating, I have decided that you would actually need to do the breathing thing also... at least occasionally

What I offer:

I would say friendship firstly. I can also offer to share in a mutual learning sense too. On some topics, those which most interest me, I have read reams of information and people's accounts of their experiences, so I guess I could share a certain amount of 'theoretical' knowledge too. Most importantly, I offer sincere, truthful and discreet friendship to those who wish to do the same for me.

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So if you have experience to impart for the return of friendship or just feeling good about helping someone out, or if you care to share experiences, or even if you would just like to learn together, then memo me. I'm also quite keen on being flirty

If we have something to share I will let you have my MSN ID, just ask.

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Disclaimer: So you might have worked it out by now, or you might not. Yes, I am what you would call 'not single', and no, she doesn't get involved outside of our relationship, and no, she doesn't really appreciate the idea of me chatting with others about it either... but I have to, or else I will go crazy and I won't learn how to be the Dom that I really am... the whole me. One day I might work out how to make her fall in love with being a sub. Complicated? You bet it is!

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Near Black   Height: 6ft   Weight: 15st   BMI: 28.3  

This profile was last updated on 11 Jan 10, 12:30 AM.

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