Not one to normally speak about my personal and private life I'm proud to announce that in addition the sammie who has been mine for some 18 months, CsBoytoy has accepted my collar.

Vanilla with lots of Chocolate sprinkles....

I'm a woman with two sides to my personality; a switch who is very Domme the majority of the time, but for the right person can be very submissive.

Here I lie, naked and wanton, a slut for your pleasure only. The need, the lust within, the soft smooth skin without, that aches for your touch, to hear your voice whispering in my ear. Nothing you ask too much, everything I do not enough. Tell me how I may fulfil your every desire, please you, bind you to me in such a way no other will do.

For those who don't know I've decided to briefly explain what I mean by Chocolate and Vanilla.

Vanilla sex is what most people have, just straight forward oral and intercourse. Where it begins to get interesting is when you add a few chocolate sprinkles.

Chocolate sex begins with sprinkles such as light bondage, (many people have tied their partners wrists to the bed and yet wouldn't consider themselves kinky) and goes right through to scenes of BDSM.

Now there's no way anyone is putting me in a gimp mask and locking me in a box only to be taken out and abused before being locked away again, that's definitely not my thing. However I do like to taste all the flavours, which is why my diary is described as Vanilla with Chocolate Sprinkles.

Life is too short not to experiment with pleasures between consenting adults that don't cause harm and yet provides fulfilment to those sharing the experience.

I've always been a fan of Sherlock Holmes and much of what is written in those fabulous stories by Conan Doyle can be transferred to real life. One of my favourite quotes (below) has often encouraged me to follow a logical and methodical path to find the answer.

"When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth."

One should never stop asking questions, pondering the mysteries and wherefores of life. Everything that happens is a lesson, a tool to aid our growth as a person. I've grown up, but I'll never stop growing, and I'm still looking for the answers.