Corseted... Again...

IC Name: DaemonFaerie Joined: 23 Jan 2008 Last visit: 30 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 26

Married to and in an open relationship with BaronSpankyHandPaw

Who Am I?

Kinky Sexy Stuffs

So, I'm DaemonFaerie, or FaerieDaemon depending on my mood. I guess it also reflects my changeable, dark/light, switch-y, sweet/evil nature, sure you get the idea!  It's not so much that I'm indecisive and can't make up my mind, just that I'm incredibly open minded and love to venture into the different roles we play, both in life, and our sexuality...

I see sexuality as a state of mind and as such it can only be as flexible, fluid and as rewarding as one allows it to be. I don't believe in only playing one character or being boxed in by societal conventions. I've found it very cathartic to have a wide range of awesome people, who I love and respect, in my life. It means that I (and those lovely, awesome people) can be who we want to be, and in any mood, and no one (within that group at least) will judge us. Once you open yourself to loving others, and being loved, you really can take the first steps on an amazing journey. Not only of self discovery but discovering the people that matter most to you. To be honest, life isn't worth living without wonderful people in it. Life's not just about the journey it's about the people who accompany you, and who you meet, on that journey!

What Do I Like?

As for my fetishes, well, the list below covers some of them rather aptly and seems to be growing every time I browse the list! Back to that open minded thing, I'll try most things once (twice or loads if I like it hehe)!

A few of my favourites:

•(sub): Daddy/little girl, breathe play, rape play, light impact play, edge play (oOoOo shiny knives and swords)! Wearing corsets and ridiculous shoes.

•(Domme): Impact play, humiliation, objectification, 'pets', worship (foot/pussy/you name it), queening.

•I also love playing with a toy (sub) when I'm in little girl mode, in a teasing, “oh I didn't know that would hurt!” kinda way, it just feels so wonderfully sadistic! grin

For clarification, I don't “play” at being little, it just comes out, it's part of who I am and I am so glad I'm now at a place in my life where I can be comfortable with it.

Hard limits are watersports, scat, blood, animals and children. Do NOT bother if any of these interests you as we'll likely not have anything in common.

The Normal 'Nilla Stuffs

Outside of the sexy stuff, I'm studying at the mo and in my final year, so horrifically busy, and can usually be found buried under a mountain of paperwork! All distractions will probably be really badly timed, but greatly appreciated when I'm procrastinating, (though I have told myself that I'm gonna stick to my good intentions to get work done in time rather than leaving it all to the last minute)! Buut, I seem to work best under pressure so we'll see! I live off stress, fags, tea and lucozade at the moment so when people see me I'll either be falling asleep or bouncing off the walls with hyperactivity!

Going back to the changeable thing; I generally swap between feeling quite dark and mean and sadistic or teeny and vulnerable and girly. I love stripey socks, faeries, glitter and making and writing stuff. But I also love watching thrillers, reading about psychology, having a jolly good debate, cooking.... The list goes on! Of course, just being silly sometimes is a great relief from the serious stuff in life like work and money and disapproving neighbours!! (The c@@ting, d@g f@cking, whiney, snot-faced, spineless, little sh@ts)!!!! Anyhoo, back to the faeries and glitter =D

I am fiercely protective of/loyal to my friends and family and will always (sometimes unwisely) stand up for the “little guy.” I'm opinionated, stubborn, a control freak, far too busy, I love writing and drawing. I love to throw parties and know that everyone is having an awesome time. I'm a terrible time keeper and regularly double book myself because when I do actually have free time I like to get as much done and catch up with as many people as possible!

Of late I've realised I'm ridiculously emotional, mainly because for the first time in my life I feel I can be honest about how I feel without worrying that people will think I'm being overly soppy! I love forming close bonds with people and have no time (literally) for casual acquaintances. Although I don't judge people instantly I do tend to get a pretty accurate impression fairly quickly, if that's a negative impression I usually give people another chance, I can't help it, and that's led to me being burnt a few times so I'm learning more and more to go with my instincts!

Why Am I Here?

Wouldn't we all love the ultimate answer to that question?! Hehe... But, it's so much fun trying to find out!

I am blissfully happy and in love with my Daddy Baronspankyhandpaw (and we're getting married soon, hoorah! hehe... ) and as such I'm not looking for anyone else. However, we do have a wide circle of friends - the loveliest, filthiest people ever - who I also love to bits! I'm not looking to meet anyone specific on here, more to keep in touch with all those lovely people I keep mentioning...

Buut, I'm always open to good conversation and meeting people when I eventually get out on the “scene” again. (Time constraints with uni at the minute are putting a serious dampener on my ability to party)!

Who Do I Get On With

This is a recent addition more for me to consider the traits I love and respect in other people. In a way I'm trying to understand myself and my personality more. No doubt it will constantly be changing but it might give you some insight into how my head works as opposed to a check list to tick off in order to be my friend (which it certainly isn't)!

All the people in my life at the moment are really open minded. You'd think that just being kinky or being on this site makes you open minded but, from experience, I've found it doesn't. I get on best with people who are very fluid in themselves and their sexuality whilst also being very down to earth and sure of who they are in the moment. I know it's impossible to completely know yourself but, if you're at least willing to give it a go and just go with your gut then it's likely we'll get on. I've also found that life experience/life intelligence is vital to me liking someone. I used to admire (on paper) people who were book smart or who wrote/spoke really well but I've realised that people who write/speak/act creatively, realistically, personally, honestly are more likely to grab my attention. Also, age is really just a number, I've met eighteen year olds with more life intelligence than some people in their fifties so I try not to judge on age.

Feel free to ask me anything, I'm all for making new friends, meeting new people for intelligent conversation, sharing stories or just being silly sometimes.

Faerie

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Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Red   Height: 5ft 8in   Weight: 10st   BMI: 21.1  

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