On the outside I'm just your average middle aged bloke carrying a few extra pounds (though a love of chocolate, not excessive beer drinking), but I've a kinky inner self that loves to find like minded people to have fun with.

I'm newly "out on the scene" (well since June 2008 if I don't get round to updating this profile soon) after 14yrs in a vanilla relationship (now an ex. relationship). However, I did "play" for the 13 years before that ... oh what happy memories .

I have a Dom(ish) personality, but I do sub to one very very special lady. Other times I tend to be in Dom mode, but do also enjoy "normal" fun and games as well .. hence the (ish).

I've already made friends with two MF married couples for whom I'm providing the F's with some interesting and challenging BDSM play - and slowly growing their experiences and tolerance levels as time and family commitments allow. (Yes .. their husbands know about, and totally approve of, our "goings on" .. I'd not have it any other way !)

However, I'm still very much interested in making new friends, and may be much much more for the right woman (if you know what I mean).

I have many and varied likes and fantasies. I like leather, lace, lingerie, PVC, latex / rubber wear, basques, corsets, fantasy uniforms, satin & silk clothes, chunky winter jumpers, frilly summer frocks, high heels & boots (both ankle & thigh), fish net & fashion stockings & tights / pantyhose ..... well everything really including the ever popular “birthday suit”.

I just love to be able to give sensuous massages, share a soapy shower, indulge in extended pussy worship, mutual masturbation [with and without “toys”], restrained arousal [cling film has some great uses ], erotic rope & leather bondage [with and without some "hands-on" / paddle / flogger / clamp / peg / vacuum discipline], D/s, B/D, fantasy play & “dress up”, and of course good old fashioned sex, especially in the “doggy” and “woman on top” positions.

In "normal" life I like walks in the country & mountains, skiing, photographing nature (both in the bedroom & out), DIY projects, when I can (but not for a while now) playing squash, badminton & horse riding ... and finally messing about with computers. I also enjoy good food, good wine, good company and the odd Single Malt Whiskey.

I feel that life's too short to limit yourself, so I'm willing to give most things a try. Just get in touch and let me know what your fantasies are, may be together we can make them come true

PS If you're interested, you can check out my profiles on AdultfriendFinder.com, Alt.com, Seek Discipline! & CollarMe -- just look for the same profile name.

PS Now becoming a regular at the BBB, and quite often at the fetish evenings @ Ceasar's Night Club in Baslall Common. If you see me there come over and say hello ... I'll talk to anyone

Final PS On my 47th Birthday .. i.e. Wed 24th Sep 2008 .. I had both nipples pierced ! .. what a lovely sight now awaits me each morning when I wake up .. I can hardly stop grinning

I've now started off my blog. Please feel free to ask any questions - I'll be as open and honest as I can without of course breaking any confidences.

For a bit of fun .. go to http://www.spankthebooty.com/ and see how fast you are ... as of 11th Nov 2008 my fastest is 761 mph, with an overall best average of 447 mph ... but in real life ? Well you'll just have to ask (nicely) for a demo if you see me out and about won't you !