Familiar on the scene as the leather family (not our creation but others I might add), you'll find us quickest via our Leather Family Website (particularly the 24/7 webcam chatroom on there) or on our own Yahoogroup.

I'm DK; Daddy, Master and head of this leather family. In other words, the buck stops with me.

Yes, formerly I was known as leathermgoddess or Kat (that's online nicknames for you); so plain old K will do if you are remotely uncomfortable with my changes, particularly since Kay is the name I've been known as since age 12. NOTE: my name is now *legally* DK.

We are a polyamorous/primarily polyfidelitous Leather Family inclusive of SM and Ds. We're considered 'edge-players' whatever that means to you, and have given many demos/workshops etc within the community at various fetish fairs, parties and clubs whenever asked. We rather enjoy 'sharing the wealth'.

As pagans we enjoy incorporating ritual and the spiritual within our SM play.

As leather we incorporate our key values, rules, formal protocol and ritual into our everyday lives.

Our family motto is Veritas, Respectus, Honorque in Corio which means Truth, Respect, Honour in Leather. We all make mistakes in life, but we do our very best to always live and act with integrity, and these core moral and behavioural values.

Unfettered & Kinkfest

DK is currently a Director of Unfettered and was Acting Chair for Kinkfest4 2008, which was on Saturday 2nd August 2008 at Conway Hall. The Unfettered website - IC Unfettered profile

Cmunch

Meet us (and many others) at our very own beloved Chesterfield Conclave every 4th Sunday of the month! (IC Profile or Yahoo Group). Also at Kinkfest, Kinklusive, BBB, SWAMP, LAM, MDS, Velvet Eden, Hidden Agenda, Rapture and/or many others.

About Me

I'm DK, (Daddy K) a leather Sir & a Daddy. However that's not all she wrote, not by any means. That's just who you'd be dealing with on a day to day basis. I am at other times known as; Bastard, Master, Daddy... and much more, that may surprise you. Yes, there is very much more to me than meets the normal eye. Still, most of you won't ever see more than DK, so don't sweat it.

I've been around within the public BDSM community since the late 90s, and have been with both my wyves for nine years (though Luisa was initially two years LDR from NY). Yeah that means I was at the last original Bridge, but had only watched and read about Moonman's Dream.

I'm also the head of my own leather family. I take that role more seriously, value it more highly and work damned harder at it than I ever have at anything else in my life, before or since. I willingly have total responsibility. Sometimes I weary a little from that somewhat incredible task, but I do know for a fact that it is always worth it in the end. They mean more to me than my own choices, my own desires, they come first and always will. I will fight to defend them with my life, as much as I would my own children. Know that. Believe it. Don't fck with it.

I am profoundly polyamorous. That means that no matter how much in love with you I am, I can be just as madly in love with others too. However I'm also quite openly a hypocritical polyamorist too, sorry, because if you're mine, then you're just damn well mine. ~slow smile~ However I'm not exactly selfish with my loves either; I do share them with each other if they so desire. Read that paragraph again and deal with it. Tough, it'll never change and believe me I've tried.

So what else makes me tick?

Leather, SM and hot sweaty leather sex. Controlled violence, brutality, nasty, filthy, gagging sex. Packing. Willing orifices. Consenting unwilling ones. Making love. Making someone cry, not with pain, but with breath and touch. Showing a woman how truly beautiful she really is, helping her to see herself through my eyes. With the strength of my love rather than my muscles... which, however, are perfectly sufficient. Dominance, submission and slavery. But not pushovers, manipulators, whiners or wusses... only a strong, intelligent person with personality and character, who knows her own mind, but chooses to bend it to my will. In other words if you don't wish to bend at all, and want to fight me instead (outside of occasionally and within my own agreed parameters i.e. punchplay) then please take it elsewhere; I'm not interested.

I'm an occasional masochist, but only very occasional, and only to my very well skilled/trained wyves (Rachel & Luisa) as service tops, solely under my own personal directions thank you very much. I'm often driven by vampiric urges and requirements, solely to those willing donors of course. I have enjoyed many years now of exploring all my darkest sides and now I contentedly accept and enjoy all those beautifully sadistic aspects of myself. Again, only to those who come willingly.

I am many other things; parent (bio mother/gran), teacher, guide, friend, brother and witch... dedicated, fiercely loyal and nothing if not honest. I am stronger than most, protective, deeply passionate, open hearted and territorial. I am powerful, yet also (apparently) have the softest, biggest heart. Spirituality with real dreams, I believe in my long term vision. I'm just a soppy old git with a few somewhat twisted urges.

I have learnt from many mistakes over the years and am enjoying my 40s, secure in who and what I am and can offer, and expect in return. I love and adore very generously, I give and offer more than you can even begin to imagine. I will draw out the very best in you, you can believe that. The deal? I expect and demand total honesty, respect and obedience. If you doubt it, try me. ~soft smile~

Who's Who

Second dominant in the family is Rachel LeatherDykeUK, my wyfe, life collared to me although a dominant/top in her own right. She's a writer (find her at http://www.leatherdyke.co.uk) having a love affair with martial arts training in Jiu Jitsu, Kobudo and much, much more. She is my moon, my magnifienct warrior bitch, my dark compliment.

Third dominant in the family is Luisa LeatherEagle our wyfe, life collared to both myself and Rachel, yet also a fully trained dominant top. Our previous major-domo, she now excels as my family Trainer. She is my sunshine and my happiness.

There are of course other members of this family but we three are it's core, always at it's heart.

Our beloved girl LeatherAngel is treasured as our major-domo. My angel. Sue accepted my life collar in April, becoming only the third person to have earnt that in my lifetime.

Long term beloved boy, at home and in service whenever able is Rowan (house collar). We treasure him dearly.

Beautiful boi Lildyke proudly bears our black leather training collar after 21 months with us. My star.

Shullie & Loops, Madkat (& partner), sf_freak and Rickman (& partner) have earnt our leathers and are leather family too, beloved and for always.

Andrea is our pet vanilla!

Lil_dolly is now with her new young man, however still my serenity and always our dolly.

Quotes

"You say that my way of thinking cannot be tolerated? What of it? The man who alters his way of thinking to suit others is a fool. My way of thinking is the result of my reflections. It is part of my inner being, the way I am made." Marquis de Sade

"How does one become a butterfly?" she asked pensively. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar." Trina Paulus

"I am the survivor, whose will to prevail defeats all foes in my midst and my path. I am an inspirer and a leader, a follower and a friend, a lover and a fighter, a brother and a wyfe. I am born woman, but the gender line is decidedly blurred. Frankly I kick supreme arse and they, mere mortals, can never break my soul." DK Leather

Advert

We are NOT currently looking for any more to join our family. However we DO have positions available for Ds Service; we currently require a regular or occasional maid/cleaner (m/f/tg/tv/ts), and someone who can fix cars and/or do household DIY. Suitable arrangements (including bdsm, if desired) are always negotiable. Dare to ask.

NOTE: Rachel says "unless you're a black belt Jujitsu (or similar) and preferably a book agent or publisher, in which case, you're in!"

NOTE2: Luisa wants a pet gay leatherman... just for the record.

Links

ALF (Alternative Lifestyle Friendly UK Professionals listings, memo me to add yours)

Blog

Livejournal

FetLife

Facebook

Myspace

Podcast on Leather by Master Bob & Kat (DK)

BDSM Rights (community groups you should be aware of)