Yours truly, latest.

IC Name: DK_Leather Joined: 9 May 2001 Last visit: 6 days ago Sex/gender: FtoM Location: Chesterfield, UK Age: 44 Website: http://www.dkleath...

NEWS

I'm thinking of running another series of private, paid/ticketed workshops again. Monthly and privately. I'm talking about all the usual BDSM workshops obviously i.e. topping skills, bottoming skills, use of various toys/implements (all the usual culprits and more; canes, singletails, floggers, needles, cuttings, et al)... but also some rather more formal Ds & Leather training classes. Currently gauging the response. Message privately if interested.

The UK KRueL Leather Family

Familiar on the scene as the leather family (not our creation but others I might add), you'll find us quickest via our Leather Family Website. Note: website presently being rebuilt after several years of getting outdated.

I'm DK; Daddy, Master and head of this leather family. In other words, the buck stops with me.

Formerly known as leathermgoddess or Kat (that's online nicknames and gender bending for you); so plain old K will do if you can't manage DK.

We are a polyamorous/primarily polyfidelitous Leather Family inclusive of SM and Ds. We're considered 'edge-players' whatever that means to you, and have given many demos/workshops etc within the community at various fetish fairs, parties and clubs, and our well known BDSM101 workshop at several Universities across the Midlands, generally whenever asked or invited. We rather enjoy 'sharing the wealth'.

As pagans we enjoy incorporating ritual and the spiritual within our SM play.

As leather we incorporate our key values, rules, formal protocol and ritual into our everyday lives.

Our family motto is Veritas, Respectus, Honorque in Corio which means Truth, Respect, Honour in Leather. We all make mistakes in life, but we do our very best to always live and act with integrity, and these core moral and behavioural values.

DK was a Director of Unfettered and Acting Chair/Organiser for Kinkfest4 2008 The Unfettered website - IC Unfettered profile

Also to be found at Kinkfest, Kinklusive, BBB, SWAMP, LAM, MDS, Velvet Eden, Hidden Agenda, Rapture and/or many others.

Awards

2011 Lifetime Achievement Award, Lammies (London Alternative Market)

2004 Most Sensual Play, BDSMmies (Velvet Eden)

2006 Best Workshop Givers, BDSMmies (Velvet Eden)

2007 Out & Out Perviest, BDSMmies (Velvet Eden)

Cmunch ~ IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT, VENUE CLOSED.

It was my VERY sad duty to tell everyone that the Cmunch venue (Rock Shots in Chesterfield) where we have held our event for the past FIVE YEARS, CLOSED. That means there will be *NO CMUNCH* for the foreseeable future, or at least until such time as we find a new one. BAH venue, no bicsuit.

~doffs cap~ DK & family

(Previous blurb saved for future reference: Meet us (and many others) at our very own beloved Chesterfield Conclave every 4th Sunday of the month! (IC Profile or Yahoo Group).)

About Me

I'm DK, (Daddy K) a leather Sir & a Daddy. However that's not all he wrote, not by any means. That's just who you'd be dealing with on a day to day basis. I am at other times known as; Bastard, Master, Daddy... and much more, some that may surprise you. Still, most of you won't ever see more than DK, so don't sweat it.

I've been around within the public BDSM community since the late 90s, and have been with both my wyves for over a dozen years(though Lu was initially two years LDR from NY). Yeah that means I was at that fateful last original Bridge, but had only watched and read about Moonman's Dream.

I'm also the head of my own leather family. I take that role more seriously, value it more highly and work damned harder at it than I ever have at anything else in my life, before or since (except parenthood, where the same goes). I willingly have total responsibility. Sometimes I weary a little from that task, but I do know for a fact that it is always worth it in the end. They mean more to me than my own choices, my own desires, they come first and always will. I will fight to defend them with my life, as much as I would my own children. Know that. Believe it. Don't fck with it.

I am profoundly polyamorous. That means that no matter how much in love with you I am, I can be just as madly in love with others too. However I'm also quite openly a hypocritical polyamorist too, sorry, because if you're mine, then you're just damn well mine. ~slow smile~ However I'm not exactly selfish with my loves either; I do share them with each other if they so desire. Read that paragraph again and deal with it. Tough, it'll never change and believe me I've tried.

So what else makes me tick?

Leather, SM and hot sweaty leather sex. Controlled violence, brutality, nasty, filthy, gagging sex. Packing. Willing orifices. Consenting unwilling ones. Making love. Making someone cry, not with pain, but with breath and touch. Showing a woman how truly beautiful she really is, helping her to see herself through my eyes. With the strength of my love rather than my muscles... which, however, are perfectly sufficient. Dominance, submission and slavery. But not pushovers, manipulators, whiners or wusses... only a strong, intelligent person with personality and character, who knows his or her own mind, but chooses to bend it to my will. In other words if you don't wish to bend at all, and want to fight me instead (outside of occasionally and within my own agreed parameters i.e. punchplay) then please take it elsewhere; I'm not interested.

I'm an occasional masochist, but only occasional, and only to my very well skilled/trained wyves as service tops, solely under my own personal directions. I'm often driven by vampiric urges and requirements, solely to willing donors of course. I have enjoyed many years now of exploring all my darkest sides and now I contentedly accept and enjoy all those beautifully sadistic aspects of myself. Again, only to those who come willingly.

I am many other things; parent (bio parent & grandparent), teacher, guide, therapist, friend, brother and witch... dedicated, fiercely loyal and nothing if not honest. I am stronger than most, protective, deeply passionate, open hearted and territorial. I am powerful, yet also (apparently) have the softest, biggest heart. Spirituality with real dreams, I believe in my long term vision. I'm just a soppy old git with a few somewhat twisted urges.

I have learnt from many mistakes over the years and am enjoying my 40s, secure in who and what I am and can offer, and expect in return. I love and adore very generously, I give and offer more than you can even begin to imagine. I will draw out the very best in you, you can believe that. The deal? I expect and demand total honesty, respect and obedience. If you doubt it, try me. ~soft smile~

Who's Who

Formal Leather Family

1. Me

2. LeatherDykeUK Second dominant in the family is Rachel, handfasted and life collared to me although a dominant in her own right. She's a writer (find her at http://www.leatherdyke.co.uk). 1999.

3. LeatherEagle Third dominant in the family is Lu, handfasted and life collared to both myself and Rachel, also a fully trained dominant & top. Family Trainer and Major Domo. 1999.

There are of course other members of this family (and indeed the wider chosen family not mentioned here) but we three are it's core, always at it's heart.

4. Rowan At home and in service whenever able, house collar. 2005.

5. LeatherTwoSpirit Boy Aimee, 2006.

6 to 11. Nadia, Madkat & Satanica_fire, sf_freak (partner Pink_Sandy) and Rickman (partner S) LeatherDaddi have all been awarded our family leathers and thus are considered leather family, beloved and for always.

Quotes

"You say that my way of thinking cannot be tolerated? What of it? The man who alters his way of thinking to suit others is a fool. My way of thinking is the result of my reflections. It is part of my inner being, the way I am made." Marquis de Sade

"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing." Oriah Mountain Dreamer.

"How does one become a butterfly?" she asked pensively. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar." Trina Paulus

"Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds..." Einstein

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." Friedrich Nietzsche

"I am the survivor, whose will to prevail defeats all foes in my midst and my path. I am an inspirer and a leader, a follower and a friend, a lover and a fighter, a brother and a husband. I was born woman, but the gender line blurred. Frankly I kick supreme arse and they, mere mortals, can never break my soul." DK Leather

Tarot

I have been reading Tarot for very many years for family and friends. This year I began reading professionally and have many happy clients, both regulars and newcomers from far and wide. Please feel free to contact me for a reading at either DKTarot Website or DKTarot Facebook Page - I read both in person and via email (and yes, that really does work, the way that I do it).

Advert

We are NOT currently looking for any more to join our family (but then we never are! Lol). However we DO have positions available for Ds Service; we currently require a regular or occasional maid/cleaner (m/f/tg/tv/ts), and someone who can fix cars and/or do household DIY. Suitable arrangements (including bdsm, if desired) are always negotiable. Dare to ask.

Links

ALF (Alternative Lifestyle Friendly UK Professionals listings, memo me to add yours)

adult Blog

Livejournal

FetLife

Twitter

Facebook

Myspace

Podcast on Leather by Master Bob & Kat (DK)

BDSM Rights (community groups you should be aware of)

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