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Welcome!

Hiya, and thanks for looking at my profile.

Despite IC telling you I'm 26, I've actually just turned 27. I've always been submissive but i didn't understand or recognise what it was until shortly before my 25th birthday. I joined IC almost immediately (after being gently pointed in this direction from CollarMe - thanks Ravenmuse!) as i found it far less aggressive than any other site. It's become a home from home since then: I've made some fantastic friends and i've had a lot of fun along the way. It's not all been about friendship though; i've also been learning and growing both as a person and a submissive, although I've yet to find the ever-elusive 'one'. I'm not entirely sure i even believe in happily ever after any more, however if you'd like to change my mind I'm open to the suggestion. A cynically bitter hopeless romantic. Did i mention i was a walking contradiction?!

I am a sub and i do NOT switch. Ever. I couldn't top a trifle. Seriously. I can't even make trifle. (Oh, incidentally, I'm also prone to go off on random tangents...)

Being a tactile and sentient creature, I need the affection and reassurance in my relationships as much as the obligatory humiliation, degradation, and the handing over complete control to you. You are completely confident in yourself and in your ability to control and Dominate another. I've recently discovered that arrogance is hugely attractive and horny as hell. I can be quite 'difficult' and bossy, and I find myself attempting to control situations entirely without meaning to. I need you to be strong enough to handle that, and absolutely refuse to let me get away with it. That takes a unique quality, and I'll know it when I see it in you.

I won't answer memos that look copy-pasted to me, or that have been sent from a blank profile, and I'll need to see a picture if we're to converse - I'm nosy like that! I am happy to chat with you if you're over 40, but I'm extremely unlikely to pursue anything other than friendship. Ideally, you're around 30-35.

There is, of course, more, but half the fun is finding me out for yourself. As long as you're relatively intelligent, polite, respectful, and your profile or opening memo doesn't fall into the catchment above, I will always respond. You never know what could happen.

See you around,

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Stuffs i adore

• Her
• Literacy and half-way decent grammar
• Music. Currently this (watch out for the bit between 6m30 & 7m... guaranteed shivers *every* time)
• Red wine (especially Shiraz or Grenache)
• Talking bollocks (usually synonymous with consuming copious amounts of the above)
• Remembering funny things friends have said
• Holding hands
• Coding (currently working on my homepage), graphics, and other internet geekery
• Falling in love
• Having my cheek/face touched, and having my head held to your chest
• Texting - i'm terrible for it!
• Hades
• Meteor Showers. In fact stars in general
• Being called 'girl' - there's something wonderfully reassuring about it
• Having my head stroked
• Skin on skin contact
• Thunderstorms
• Kissing. Especially with my hair wrapped in your fist

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Stuffs i love D/s wise

• Humiliation *purrs*
• Being outsmarted (mind-fucks)
• Being afraid
• Blindfolds & sensory deprivation
• Violence
• Tasks (they help me feel like i'm thought about when we're not together)
• To sometimes just need you
• Complete mental & psychological Domination
• Being called all manner of filth during play/sex
• Your hand around my throat... i've been known to space almost immediately

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Stuffs i utterly loathe

• Being naked in front of someone (i'm working on it)
• Onions. Especially on pizza (why would you *do* that!?)
• Orgasm denial; it makes me crabby, emotional, and completely disinterested in sex
• Feeling stupid
• Waiting. I am the most impatient person known to man, ever, about absolutely everything
• Being ignored. Alongside being lied to, it's my only instant and automatic deal breaker.

Thank you for reading, and good luck finding what you're looking for.

*c*