Hi, I'm just here for the craic, make some new friends and see where the winds blow.

I'm an easygoing married Top (for want of a better word) looking for ideas, friends and social fun. My wife is kinky and aware I am online here and Fetlife and we usually come as a package. I love history, home-brewing (mead mainly), geography, food, swordfighting, socialising and talking the hind leg off a donkey as well as random thoughts.

I try to avoid being a stereotype, so don't expect me to pose about in leather or demand you lick my boots and all that. I do not believe in pigeon-holing, deconstruction or the reduction of person-hood. You are still a person to me. Mine is a coda based on earning a woman's trust and loyalty to persuade her to become a resource and asset in a mutual enterprise with my direction.

I do not believe in domination on a whim, but on reason, conviction and enjoyment for all involved in a joint endeavour. The scene is clichéd enough as it is.

The fun's the thing. By all means say hello.

This profile was last updated on 26 Apr 12, 8:36 PM.

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