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IC : Profiles : ClassAct2005
| Profile: | ClassAct2005 |
| Created on: | 7 Feb 2005 |
| Last visit: | 7 hours ago |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | London |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| Age: | 48 |
| Hair colour: | Auburn |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Weight: | 8st 12lb |
| Height: | 5ft 5in |
| BMI: | 20.5 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Male | | Ad title: | Seeking... |
| Ad updated: | 146 days ago |
About me
I am pretty, sexy, slim, clever, English, professionally successful and, I think, rather nice too. I am 48 and divorced. I have children. I have always been submissive, but I lead a full, normal life. My personality type is ENFJ (see http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFJ.html).
I haven't put up a picture simply because of confidentiality given the nature of my work but I think I look good. I have brown/auburn shoulder length hair, blue eyes, freckles, English size 10, about 5 foot 4 - 5, weigh about 9 stone, quite active. I like to wear pretty dresses and high heels and I'm told I have a nice voice.
I am looking for a compatible dominant man who might, if things work out, want a long term, full relationship. Living in London helps. Being single is essential. Divorced is fine. Children are fine - I love children. I have to admire and respect a man before I can submit to him and need someone to have fun with, go out with, live with, enjoy in the most intimate of senses. I have to think I will be able to talk to you for the next few decades and never run out of things to say. I am very submissive and need someone who understands that fully: a caring dominant man who is dominant in the inherent and controlling sense, not just in bed.
I am looking for an 'alpha' male to engage my mind first: thereafter all will follow; someone who is dominant as the expression of his nature in order to control me and to keep me in line with just a look or a word. He needs to enjoy the subtleties of D/s and not just like but need power exchange as well as the physical side of things.
Your answers to these questions might help us work out if we're compatible.
1. Do you obtain pleasure from inflicting pain on women?
2. Do you obtain an erotic charge from dominating and controlling a woman?.
3. What form does that control usually take?
4. When did you first have sexual fantasies about being dominant and controlling women and when did you first try this with a woman?
5. Have you ever switched?
6. Would you say you had experience of D/s relationships and controlling a woman and if not and you believe it's in your nature, why not?
7. Are you always in charge in relationships and like to take the lead?
8. When did you first spank a woman?
9. What sort of things do you require in your D/s relationships with a submissive ?
10. Which of the following best describes you - I would love to try or enjoy kinky sex OR I have no choice about my nature - I am hard wired dominant and need to control a woman - it's not a chore, it is part of the essence of me and a core need?
Ideally he will be someone who takes good care of his health and the condition of his body. He will have good manners, live well, be creative in his pursuits and financially sound and be fun.
I am a lifetime submissive, although very competent in career and family life. Whilst to family, friends and at work I may appear non-assertive, they would be unlikely to guess my sexuality. I need to respect and be attracted to a dominant man, be sure he is interested in me as a career professional and divorced mother with sophisticated cultural tastes as well as in being his obedient, submissive possession. A novice dominant man might have difficulty in putting me in my place. A man with no qualms about how my type of woman should be handled and has experience in handling them is what I need.
My interests are wide - from psychology to religion, from anthropology to history. I ski and sail. I think. I enjoy my home and garden. I like eating out and staying in. I enjoy my work too and my family.
I am cautious and careful and restrain myself from posting here any identifying details.
About me and submission
For me this is almost entirely in the mind. This makes the personality of the person who dominates me so very important. You have to understand me. You have to want to please me in the sense of wanting me to be happy pleasing you. We are both consenting to something and both in a sense giving to the other, although the bottom line is that I like to please and I never want a man to do as I say. I have to trust you enough, respect you enough, to do whatever you require and what that is is not my place to question. You have to be inside my mind to such an extent that you will not need a rope or a belt to restrain me, although of course you will use what you choose. I would lie or kneel where you said instead simply because you'd directed me to.
The details of what I might physically want to do or not to do are neither here nor there and can be worked on. It is often how things are said or done rather than what is done which matters.
I have never had a relationship in which I have not been submissive. It is the only way I can be. I feel like people feel who are born gay. It's not a choice or something you learn to be. It is how I am. I know what I like, but I do not want to suggest a checklist of physical actions. I like someone who can put some effort into things, preparations and plans and who is always considerate, trustworthy, polite ...except of course when exercising his rights in private and to an extent in public. I like having how I look and dress controlled. I need to feel cherished and protected. However, he must also be confident, firm when necessary and I accept that he has the right to and should take me further than I might think I want to go. I am never awkward, difficult or brattish but I like to communicate how I feel and what I want. I like the feeling that my opinion is of value even though I do not expect in most cases to be taking decisions myself.
Control is the one thing I seek and need. If you have no desire to control, in and out of bed, you are probably not for me. It is the getting inside of my mind which is the key to this and I am as interested in relationships such as those known as "takeninhand" as anything else. I am submissive, but I would always want to continue my career. However it is some kind of power exchange relationship I seek and indeed inevitably will end up in because I am programmed to be like that. It's etched in my DNA, wired into my being.
Being submissive is how I am, how I've been since as early as I can remember. No question. The most erotic thing there is.
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will. His pleasure. His Desires. His life. His work. His sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh God, as woman I want to be Dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own two feet, not to cling to all that I am capable of doing, but I am pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at His time, His Bidding...." - Anais Nin
"To be completely woman you need a master and in him, a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him, it is no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long."
Marlene Dietrich
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