Hmm, what to say about me? I'm not sure whether to err on the side of caution and keep it short and sweet or blabber on in a haphazard way and sound like a maniac to many! Ah well, why break the habit of a lifetime..

In essence, I'm an enigma and I'm very good at confusing people, even myself at times. I went through a time, well, a couple of years at least of experimenting with switching but in reality it's a few and far between thing and I only seem to capture that dynamic with a minority of people and very special people they've been too. I'm generally more comfortable as a submissive, although I have to admit I need to give a right good flogging to someone now and then. What can I say? It makes me feel very cool, calm and collected and is a great stress reliever. Is one allowed to say such things on such sites? Oh well, I've said it now!

I'm your worst nightmare and your sweetest fantasy all rolled into one. Irresistable huh?! I'm fiercely passionate about the things I believe in and the people I care for. I make no excuses whatsoever about that.

I adore BDSM, power dynamics and exchange, pain, pleasing and lots more besides. Sometimes it's a deep craving I can't put to rest and is all I think about but it's not the be all and end all of me. It is an integral part of me though and one I've learnt to accept over the years.

This little bit of blurb about me may seem slightly sparse on the kink front but that's the way I like it. An exhibitionist I'm not. If you have a burning desire to know anything, just ask!

Mainly, I say what I think, even if you might not want to hear it. You'll either love me or hate me, just like Marmite, which I love by the way!

This profile was last updated on 29 Oct 11, 1:29 PM.

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