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IC Name: Chain_theprincess Joined: 6 Jan 2012 Last visit: 2 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: NW (North West London), UK Age: 44

I have so far had no luck in my search for a man. I have made wonderful fabulous friends here and find the people in this comunity for the most part lovely.

I have however also met and talked to many horrible, ignorant, and even scary individuals in my search for a play partner and mate. I am regularly insulted, called names, and had even my sanity questioned by wankers, pretenders, and bullies. Please don't be one. If you have NO profile, No kink friends, No attendance at any kink events, and you KNOW your NOT for me...... Why the hell are you messaging me???? I do not require a pep talk, or a "oh how sad, keep your chin" talk. thanks

About My Situation:

I have been here 4 out of a 6 Month vacation/ FACT finding mission/ exploration in UK. I have to leave country late July. I want to come back when I can. I like it here. I also miss back home and the things I left there. I came here searching for "The One". Are You he? (Yes I would relocate for the right man and am considering making the real move to the UK)

Summary for those with small attention spans:

Hot, Horny, Masocist woman with occational bad attitude and excellent kicking and screaming skills wants desperately to find Male Domley Dom who turns all her cranks to over power and possess her. NOT activly searching for a submissive, an older gentleman, a feminant, a bi sexual man, or a bully Dom who expects submission simply because he exists. Also not looking for an open relationship, swingers or married/ attached men.

If love giving degree of pain, willing to take on a challange and look like Adonis, please apply to the above bad subbies memo board.

What I DO Want..

In a nutshell I am looking for a LTR with a Dominant and somewhat Sadistic man who can fulfill my play and emotional needs. Are you him? Are you fairly fit, attractive to my eyes (the only ones that matter), between the ages of 30-40ish, an experienced Dom with some skill and a driven need to possess and control? Do you have patients, understanding, and a desire to instruct and lead the way? Do you not mind being in public or private play, consider a LTR the only true way to know a woman's soul and find a bit of feistiness a turn on (because who wants a door mat?)? Then please read on. *Cat people need not apply

If You need to know the rest:

I am from Alberta Canada and yes apparently I have an accent. Back home I own a company called Whiplash Productions which puts on play parties and workshops for the BDSM community there. (I am financially independent and not looking for a man for that kind of support). I have 18+ years of lifestyle experience. In Canada there is little fetish and a lot of SM. Canadians do VERY BAD THINGS TO EACH OTHER. MY road has been a long one and one of much learning. I feel qualified to teach others on things like electrical play, and am sometimes mortified at what I perceive as a lack of education in some communities.

For the last 6ish years I have tried my hand at switching. So now I have all the toys, and I can play with all the boys, and I walk into a room and they all think me a Lady. But there is a hidden truth. Screaming deep inside of me is still the same reality that I've had my entire life. The woman inside is desperate for her hair pulled. It causes a physical sexual reaction no submissive male could ever give me.

I have been described as Beautiful, bratty, hard core, and a princess thus the name. I am all those things. I am also irrational, confusing, sadistic, playful, horny, an exhibitionist, a voyeur, a bad speller and young at heart. I could also stand to loose several pounds and would love to be with someone who could motivate be to do so. I breathe kink and make a poor part time lover. I'm In need of patients, a kind touch, honesty, and gentle training and a Dom willing to put in the effort to reap the rewards at the end of the line.

If I admit to my needs, they are to be possessed, played and controlled. I have referred to myself as a BOTTOM over the years as I haven't stopped wanting to PLAY even when not in a committed relationship. But it goes so much deeper than that for me. I have been described as Masochistic and have done some extreme things, usually as part of more public workshops or stage demonstrations. However I still tend not to play casually or if I do it is at a very low level of pain and am not looking for someone to match past feats with me.

Bottoming to someone to the 9th degree involves a quite serious relationship of sorts and level of trust and understanding that many don't understand. Casual play is of little interest nor does it fill any need. I love to play hard and want a man who is able to control my body and mind. Because I play so hard I also crash quite hard. Subspace must be fully understood and appreciated for what it is and could be. I often require a large amount of aftercare. In times of little activity my tolerance levels can wane alot and need to be re built up however I enjoy pain in my play, and this will always be needs of mine that can be filled no other way. One who purely wishes to dominate and not form bonds as well is probably not a good fit for me. The rewards for the chosen Top are too many to mention!

I enjoy electrical play,(own violet wand and internal tens), flogging, spanking, whips etc. As for regular vanilla stuff, I love anything to do with the UFC cage fighting, Sci - Fi, and medival times. (just to name a few of my interests) I love dancing, having a drink, riding motorbikes, and being made to feel like the most beautiful girl in the room.

In reality my dream is a 24 7 relationship where in which we both have our lives but I am "always" his. I would do my best to look after his life and household, though This in no way means I believe i would make a good service slave as I barely take care of my own household duties. (the upside is that I do switch and have incredible delegation skills if we had a kinky maid!!) The man I seek is not a fly by night week end player, a man looking for afternoons, a wife cheater, or someone who “thinks” he would like kink if he gives it a try.

I would also hope he would see clear to understanding I am not simply submissive by nature, quiet or demure and doing any of those things takes a HUGE amount of effort. But a pain slut and a sexual sub... those things I am for certain.

I require someone who is dedicated, honest, and willing to put time and energy into me. This includes my friendships. I expect that, because that is exactly what you should expect from me. I am an extremely sexual and kinky individual who seeks to find the missing half of the coin. I am also an attention whore and like a man who can look after his woman in other ways, flowers, talks, walks (you get the picture)

I should also note somewhere here that I am considered a cougar (LOL) in my circle and , I have been known to dip in much younger waters! As a unwritten rule I tend to not go for men too close to my own age.

Is this obtainable? Am I simply broken? Can you fix me?

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: brown blon   Height: 5ft 9in  

This profile was last updated on 25 May 12, 10:49 AM.

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