40-degrees?

IC Name: Ceptable Joined: 19 Jun 2007 Last visit: 3 minutes ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Birmingham, UK Age: 37

The kink me?

I label myself (fwiw) as bi and switch - depending on the person. That doesn't mean I can't make my mind up, rather I have a hedonistic streak and find I relate to different people in different ways across the whole spectrum of kink. Generally I top with existing partners, but that's only part of the story.

The real me?

I'm in my 30s, sane, intelligent, confident and open-minded. I feel young though it's getting less true each day. I'm told I can be difficult. I like being challenged and have a weakness for terrible sci-fi and fantasy television and films. I'm fiercely loyal, offer a great deal to my friends and try to look backwards as well as forwards. Despite a certain level of cynicism, I find people fascinating.

I have plenty of interests outside the scene that I'm not going into here beyond saying 'music' and 'photography', but needless to say I have more than a one-track mind. I enjoy cycling to keep fit and in trim - which mostly work.

My sense of humour has less moisture in it than the Sahara desert. I am told my social shyness can make me appear aloof and disinterested. Whilst that's true sometimes, I like to make it clear when I'm insulting someone - I think it's only fair.

I'm probably addicted to the internet. I use it for work and pleasure. Getting out and meeting some new people would be an excellent win condition for being on this site. I don't play MMORPGs because there's a strong chance I would then lose all contact with reality.

I split my working week between London and the Midlands. Which means London some weekdays and occasional weekends, and the Midlands on the rest of the time. In fairness, I try not to let distance become an issue.

People in my life

I'm in a stable, long-term open relationship. No, really - it's been going for a number of years like this and has seen a number of other decent-length relationships happen during it. She and I are both happy with each other and our pet rats - so therefore I'm not looking for anything exclusive.

This is my profile - not for any arrangement of couple, but in general my partners are friendly outgoing folk so all sorts of possibilities exist.

Seeking

I don't have a shopping list. My eyes are open to interesting people who fit (or not) all kinds of boxes. If there's a connection - whether it be for conversation, play or more than I will smile and do my best to ensure mutual advantage is taken.

The closest I get at the moment is that I'm interested in meeting the 'right' (or should that be 'wrong') kind of man for play. Whilst I enjoy topping a great deal, a dominant man would be treated very appreciatively.

Photos

Happy to swap photos and so on. I'm not trying to hide anything from genuine people - just being a little careful because of the industry I work in.

Yahoo messenger:andsandsx   MSN ID:xashash@hotmail.com   Height: 6ft   Weight: 13st   BMI: 24.5  

This profile was last updated on 21 Apr 12, 5:53 PM.

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